1. Sebab i know life is short — hidup dekat dunia ni sementara, so i want to live the life sebaiknya (sebab bernafas pun is part of rezeki for me)
2. For my kids. I want to raise them the best way i can and give them the kind of love only a mother can.
Marriage isn’t about 50:50. It’s not about 100:0 either.
Yesterday I wasn’t feeling well. Husb bought us dinner from pasar malam and fed me medicine while I was in bed. He ironed the clothes for us and the kids, did the laundry and washed the dishes.
Today, he went to bed early. Just after Isyak, he dozed off. I could see how exhausted he was. So I took care of the rest of the house chores, ironing the clothes, doing the laundry and washing the dishes.
You see, yesterday, it was 30:70. And today, it’s 70:30. The ratio is never fixed. Sometimes it’s 55:45. Sometimes it’s 60:40. Depends on day. Sometimes it even got to 43.8:56.2
Marriage is about partnership. It’s about complementing and backing each other up. You can’t define it by an exact ratio. As long as both respect each other, understand partnership and responsibility, they’ll make it, insyaAllah.
Maturity isn't about age or seniority; it's about sensitivity, manners, and your reaction to issues and challenges.
Once you mature, you realize that silence is often more powerful than proving a point.
Bila orang buat jahat kat kita, kadang rasa macam nak balas balik je biar dorang rasa apa kita rasa, tapi tu lah tak sampai hati nak aniaya orang. Pastu sakit hati sorang sorang sementara nak redha lol