before u have kids, when they’re a little older.. but toddlers?? I know the average 30 year old isn’t this out of touch. hella inconsiderate to expect her to go. could’ve invited her and said she understands if she can’t make it. stressing this new mom out for no reason
@smokeynj123@strangestmoons@yoadri_n ya she needs to decline it asap so as not to waste her friend’s time but I can understand why it’s difficult for her cause the friend didn’t even throw in a “I understand if u can’t make it” when inviting her
@ver_nanaaa ya like I’ve been saying in my other replies, she needs to communicate w her friend and decline the invitation asap so as not to waste her friend’s time
Ppl hate when someone they believe to be an underdog seems more confident and self assured than they are. it doesn’t make sense to them, so they become offended by the audacity. And they’ll ignore you when you’re down on your luck.
You can’t win so might as well live your truth
@luna_tick246 getting a babysitter for a few hours is diff than getting one for 3 days 💀 I’d argue leaving ur toddler w a babysitter for 3 days while ur 2.5 hours away can be considered child neglect
You’re the last person the divine wants to see spazzing out. This is why you were trained to temper your emotions from a very young age. The polarity to the love you give makes you someone EXTREMELY dangerous when you get mad. This is also why people attempt to send you the spirit of irritation and provoke you into arguments and disputes. People used to be able to harvest off of this energy but now you alchemize it into more power. The type of rage you possess now is divine. Your ancestors handle your battles because they know that if you were free to move the way you would like to that nobody would be safe. Safe to say that A LOT of chosen beings are hot heads in recovery bc they had to learn to manage& channel that passion.
Some folks cant stop watching you bc they know how much they did in the background to try and sabotage you. You’re supposed to be somewhere fried died and laid to the side but you’re thriving. It HAS to be God.
You are not obligated to give grace to ppl who purposely disrupted your world. Some ppl went out of their way to ruin your relationships, fuck up your stability, tried to make you homeless, made sure you had nobody to call for help, lied on you to everybody who would listen and tried to line you up and ONLY want to be a part of your life again bc you did not die. The things they intended for you- you were NEVER supposed to recover from and not only did you recover, you rebirthed yourself better than before and only want a way back in to control the trajectory of your NEW reality. Pay these ppl dust. Certain things you will NEVER forget, and certain ppl will NEVER be able to connect with you ever again.
Ppl get caught RED HANDED and still try to avoid accountability & that’s why karma is beating your ass like that. You’re so ashamed of YOURSELF you won’t even admit you were wrong. That’s okay bc the entire world will see your judgement and it’s written all over your face.
Nobody is more obsessed with you than the ppl who have betrayed you and ruined the connection between you forever. They feel like “how dare you” not let me belittle you, abuse you & take you for granted… Yeah… okay.
You can’t be friends with someone who envies you. You can’t be family w someone who wants to destroy you. You can’t exist in spaces with people who wish to control your life. You can’t have peace w a liar. You can’t hang out with ppl who want your life. You can’t do ANYTHING w ppl who have hidden agendas. You can’t play cool w ppl you know are doing things to you in the Spirit but smiling in your face in real life. You can’t break bread or share energy w ppl who are trying to latch on to you. Stop pretending you owe loyalty to ppl who are just waiting to get you in the perfect position to demolish you.
People thought you were hiding when really you were just healing. Thats a process they’re unfamiliar with so they take your silence and retreat as defeat not realizing that is what made you so bulletproof. These ppl fear solitude and you thrive in it. You are comfortable with yourself and that’s why you’re so comfortable everywhere else.
Some ppl are burdened by your forgiveness bc they need a reaction from you. Once I understand you're a snake it's impossible for me to care. I expect you to do what a snake does, so it makes me no difference.
it’s like “oh.. there are like, a lot of people who believe in the “right to rape” and if I don’t stop them it sounds like nobody will so I’ll be barking from now on” woof woof
The betrayals end up being a blessing in disguise bc you really stop caring about what ppl think about you after experiencing the pain that comes from a certain level of deception.