Cole Sim

Historian, Archivist, Anthropologist. Continually neglecting my gaming responsibilities. Determined to master the pull-up bar. 0 dance skills. 🩷Kpop 100%Female

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

This is exactly why it matters.

[Sassafrass84 @Sassafrass_84]

To many people can't see the bigger picture. This is all about power and control.

Listen to her. She is on point and knows what she is saying.

Truthfully, this is the first time I have heard that somebody who participated in the October 7th slaughter is on American soil. We need to deport every illegal. Now.

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@gahoagieUSA @thedimitri I sincerely hope he finds out- if he exists.

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@aliumrapture I believe you.
My MIL did not love my husband. I truly believe that.

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@dvorstone This is bullshit.

You want women to just either give her kid up, or raise them without a father for the rest of her life.

Military service is 4 years.

The TRAUMA of these children would be astronomical!

How about mandatory military service in non-combat roles?

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@Solee975 @White_Crayon_00 @MeghanEMurphy 10000%

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@XLady1074 @White_Crayon_00 @MeghanEMurphy I think this is the most likely scenario. I see it ALL the time.

He probably rejected her bids for emotional intimacy & her requests for him be responsible in other areas that were attractive to her for a long time.

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@Charrington_84 @White_Crayon_00 @MeghanEMurphy How does one magically cultivate genuine desire when they aren’t attracted sexually to their spouse?

Does your opinion change if she’s 300 lbs& he’s the one not wanting sex with her?

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@White_Crayon_00 @MelodyCrystel Child support is to support the child you are “responsible for”.

Should the child suffer poverty bc their parents don’t have sex anymore?

That seems cruel for the father to abandon his kids bc he wasn’t getting off sexually.

Pretty crazy association you have there WC

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@MelodyCrystel @White_Crayon_00 This is probably exactly what happened for them both.

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@White_Crayon_00 @Terfinator25766 @MeghanEMurphy I would like to opt in on this abusing White Crayon situation.
Where do I sign up?
Are there monthly fees?

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@White_Crayon_00 @annex_girl @MeghanEMurphy You said “responsibility”.
Like doing a task or chore.

Who wants to do chores?

It’s another person’s responsibility to satisfy your sexuality or sexual urges. That’s the crux of your argument.

Should men also perform for their wives even if they lost attraction?

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@TheMuppetPastor Yep

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@mattvanswol I hope she lives her life to the fullest, in an honorable way that honors her father’s sacrifice, with a lot of joy to balance out this great sorrow. I hope she chooses a mate like her father.

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

And this is both MEN & women. So the narrative that women are uniquely just too stupid to be able to vote bc they are so easily led, falls apart in the face of real history & psych/sociological testing.

[Brivael Le Pogam @brivael]

Je me suis longtemps passionné pour la psychologie, et une période m'obsède plus que toutes les autres.

L'après-guerre.

Le moment où des chercheurs se sont posé la question la plus dérangeante du siècle: comment l'Allemagne nazie avait-elle transformé des pères de famille ordinaires en bourreaux de camp?

La réponse, ils ne l'ont pas trouvée chez des monstres. Ils l'ont trouvée chez des hommes parfaitement banals.

Hannah Arendt a appelé ça la banalité du mal. L'historien Christopher Browning, en étudiant le bataillon de réserve 101 (des policiers d'âge mûr, des pères, des commerçants), a montré que ce ne sont pas des fanatiques qui ont fusillé des civils, mais des hommes normaux incapables de désobéir au cadre dominant.

Puis vint Milgram. À Yale, environ deux tiers de gens ordinaires ont infligé ce qu'ils croyaient être des décharges mortelles, simplement parce qu'une autorité en blouse blanche le leur ordonnait. L'expérience de la prison de Stanford a montré la même chose sous un autre angle: donnez à quelqu'un un rôle et un cadre, et il s'y conformera jusqu'à l'inhumain.

La leçon n'est pas allemande. Elle est humaine.

Le mécanisme s'active dès qu'un cadre moral dominant fait craindre la sanction sociale plus que ne compte le témoignage de ses propres yeux. L'individu cesse de voir ce qu'il voit. Il voit ce que le cadre l'autorise à voir.

Maintenant, regardez Southampton.

Henry Nowak, 18 ans, poignardé, allongé au sol, répète aux policiers « j'ai été poignardé », « je ne peux plus respirer ».

Réponse de l'officier: « I don't think you have, mate. »

Pendant ce temps, son meurtrier retourne la situation d'une phrase: il aurait été victime d'une agression raciste. Quatre mots ont suffi pour déplacer le soupçon de l'agresseur vers la victime.

Et l'officier a obéi. Pas à un ordre. À un cadre.

Un cadre qui lui a appris, pendant des années, qu'une plainte pour racisme est l'accusation la plus dangereuse de sa carrière. Plus dangereuse, dans son réflexe conditionné, qu'un corps qui se vide de son sang devant lui.

Exactement le mécanisme de Milgram, de Browning. Un homme normal qui cesse de croire ses propres yeux parce qu'un cadre moral lui a appris ce qu'il devait craindre.

C'est précisément ça qui me terrifie.

Souvenez-vous: le monde entier s'est agenouillé pour quatre mots, « I can't breathe ». Des entreprises, des gouvernements, des stades entiers.

Henry a prononcé les mêmes mots, en train de mourir. Il n'y aura ni genou à terre, ni hashtag, ni minute de silence.

Parce que sa mort ne sert pas le cadre. Elle le contredit.

Et un système qui apprend à une société entière à faire passer l'accusation de racisme avant les faits, avant le corps, avant la vie, n'est pas une posture morale inoffensive.

C'est une machine à fabriquer des hommes qui, face à un enfant en train de mourir, choisissent les menottes.

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@MarcheseMethods This guy is over here calling everyone stupid who doesn’t agree that the woman (& women in general) is childish & stupid bc they want to be attracted to a man to date him.

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@MarcheseMethods So men should definitely be coached into having enough maturity to date ugly women?

Looks don’t matter?

You have support for this theory?

Or is it only women who should date men they feel no attraction to, so they can be mature & enlightened according to your standards?

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@MarcheseMethods I dislike ppl who go out of their way to imply that if someone disagrees with them, it MUST be that the disagreement comes from a low IQ, immature person.

That’s illogical.

Painting women as they must be childish & stupid for actually disagreeing with you- not a good look 4 u.

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@MarcheseMethods So men should definitely be coached into having enough maturity to date ugly women?

Looks don’t matter?

You have support for this theory?

Or is it only women who should date men they feel no attraction to, so they can be mature & enlightened according to your standards?

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@MausRicochet @MarcheseMethods And was pretty mature about it. The whole scenario is counter to this guy’s claims & he wants to pretend it proves his theories.

Meanwhile, the rest of X are castigating a woman for not responding like this to the Valvoline guy…

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@MarcheseMethods Calm down.

I get mistaken for a man on X all the time bc of my name. Just clarifying.

Why would you use “tough guy” on a woman? That would just be weird. But I guess you had to find something to try to say I was wrong about something. Taking it “literally” was the best u found

[Cole Sim @SimofCole]

@MarcheseMethods Woman. It’s in my bio.

It doesn’t support it either.