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Thissss every woman should try at least once every year
1. Take yourself to the cinema alone, buy popcorn, pick the seat you actually want. Laugh, cry if you need to, no one talking to you, just you and the movie.
2. Go to a cafe on a weekday, order a drink and one small pastry, sit by the window and keep your phone face down for a bit, watch people going to work, students rushing, cars passing.
3. Book a nice but affordable hotel in your city, pack a small overnight bag like you’re travelling, order room service or buy food on the way, take a long shower, wear the robe, lie on the bed and do nothing if you want, journal, watch a movie, sleep in clean sheets.
4. Take yourself on a Saturday breakfast, wake up early, shower, wear something cute, go somewhere that serves breakfast, sit there and order something nice, enjoy your meal, take some selfies.
5. Book a beauty appointment alone, get your nails done, your brows, wash and style your hair, don’t rush home, look at yourself properly before you leave.
Ramaḍān – Day 26
Yā Allah, today we make this duʿāʾ especially for the women we have lost to pregnancy and childbirth complications. Replace their tragic loss with Jannah and raise their ranks among the righteous.
Yā Allah, we also pray for our sisters who have suffered miscarriages. Comfort their hearts and replace their loss with pregnancies that will bring forth healthy and righteous children.
For every Muslim woman who is currently pregnant, grant them ease, safety, and a smooth delivery. Protect them and their babies from harm.
And for every woman trying to conceive, Yā Allah, say to their hopes “Kun Fayakūn”.
Āmīn.
I really do wish we could have an Unilorin Alumni iftar at the VC's Lodge like the undergraduates do🥹
I miss those school days🥹🤭❤️
Sweet old days >>>>>
During this Lai-latul Qadr,Please kindly and Genuinely say a prayer for me when you see this🙏🙏
I’ve heard that Allah(SWT) answer the prayers strangers make for someone🥹
May He not forsake you and May He answer your prayers as well🤲🤲
There’s this couple that lives two houses away from my house.
Every evening around 6pm, the husband comes back from work. Before he even enters the house, he honks lightly not aggressively just one soft beep.
And without fail, his wife comes out to meet him at the gate.
Not because she has to.
Not because he can’t open it himself.
But because she wants to.
One day I was close enough to notice something.
She had flour on her hands. She was clearly cooking. Yet she still ran out, wiped her hands on her apron, and met him halfway.
He stepped out of the car smiling like he hadn’t seen her in years.
No big drama. No over-the-top romance.
He just held her face for a second and said,
“Welcome back to me.”
And she laughed like it was the first time he ever said it.
They’ve been married for over 20 years.
But the way that man looks at her?
Like he still can’t believe she chose him.
And the way she waits for that soft horn every evening?
Like it’s her favorite part of the day.
That’s when I realized…
Maybe marriage isn’t about grand gestures.
Maybe it’s about someone who still feels like home every single day.🥺
THE ANATOMY OF WOMEN’S AVERSION TO POLYGAMY
We often dismiss a woman’s dislike for polygamy as mere jealousy. We call it insecurity. But that is a lazy analysis of human nature.
The aversion is rarely about the law itself. It is about the implications of that law on her safety.
Think about the math of survival. In any economic model, when you increase the divisor, the quotient decreases. To a woman, a husband represents a finite set of resources. His time is limited. His emotional bandwidth is capped. His finances are numbered.
When a second partner enters the equation, the math guarantees a reduction. It is not selfishness to protect the provision that ensures your survival and the survival of your children. It is instinct.
Then there is the fear of replacement.
Men often view polygamy as expansion. They are simply adding a new wing to the mansion. But women often view it as a renovation. They fear that the old furniture is being cleared out for the new.
The deepest psychological fear isn't just sharing the man. It is becoming obsolete to him. In a world that idolizes newness, the fear of being "the old wife" is a rational terror.
Monogamy provides a unique psychological luxury. It is the luxury of not being compared.
Polygamy removes that safety. It introduces a daily, silent metric. Who did he smile at more today? Who got the better gift? Who is he happier to see?
It forces a woman into an involuntary competition for affection in her own home. It takes immense spiritual strength to silence the voice that constantly asks, "Am I no longer enough?"
We have to be honest about the verdict.
Women do not hate God’s permission. They fear man’s execution.
They have seen too many examples where "Sunnah" was used as a disguise for neglect. They have seen justice promised but never delivered.
Until men master the duty of protection as well as they have mastered the right of marriage, the fear will remain valid.
Allah knows best.
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