Dear Husband,
A woman does not decide to be your wife and choose to be faithful because you are Mr. Perfect. She is faithful because she is a woman of character.
She chooses you every day because she honours her vows, even on the days you are difficult to love. She protects your home because that is the kind of woman she decided to become, it's not because you have never given her reasons to do otherwise.
But don't mistake her character for a reason to become careless.
Don't assume that because she is not the type to cheat, she no longer needs your affection and don't believe that because she stays, she no longer needs to be pursued.
A woman can remain loyal while slowly withdrawing her heart.
Nature does not tolerate empty spaces. If you stop investing in your marriage, she may not seek another man, as a lot of people are quick to think, but she will find somewhere else to pour herself. She may bury herself in work, lose herself in motherhood, devote herself to church or build a life where you are no longer at the centre of her joy.
One day, you may wake up to realise that she is still your wife, but no longer your closest companion.
Don't let it get that far. It doesn't have to.
Listen when she speaks, especially when her words make you uncomfortable. Notice the sacrifices she no longer mentions. Thank her for the things that have become so normal you barely see them anymore.
Hold her hand for no reason. Laugh with her. Pray with her. Date her long after the wedding. Make memories she will still smile about twenty years from now.
Become the safest place she knows.
A loyal wife is one of God's greatest gifts to a man, but even the strongest marriages do not thrive on loyalty alone.
Strong marriages thrive on intentional love, mutual honour, daily kindness and the decision to keep choosing each other every single day.
Meet her loyalty with your own.
Meet her commitment with presence.
Meet her love with firm leadership that serves, not one that controls.
Do that consistently, and your marriage will become a place where two imperfect people make each other feel secure in a world that offers very little certainty.
Something many people spend a lifetime searching for.
Have an amazing Sunday.
Lmao that's how a Rida driver told me that I would need to pay more if he puts on his AC, cuz it's just Bolt and Uber drivers that put on AC 💀😭
I told him to kuku cancel the ride lemme come down, then the AC came on immediately! These people know exactly what they are doing.
Told a Bolt driver to Put on AC shortly after the trip started.
He said his AC isn't working, I told him to take me back to where I was and cancel since he didn't mention.
If you see how this car don turn cold room, Hallelujah!
@NationalGridNg @IkejaElectric Come and see. This is how you update your customers!
Idk why you have not provided power supply to certain parts of Lagos since Thursday night and you are yet to say anything about it.
You need to do better.
After building a shopify website, this US based client kept postponing my payment. She was making sales and I was seeing everything in the backend.
After 6 months of begging for $600 with no response , I deleted the website. Almost immediately she came threatening and racially broke shaming me 😂
After a few days she apologised and tried to trick me into putting back the website for my pay.
I told her the fee was now $6000 or she gets another dev to do it.
I left a “This owner refused to pay her developer for 6 months” message on her website.
Legend has it she’s still looking for a developer.
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@NigeriaStories THIS IS NOT A SOLAR ECLIPSE. Yes there was a eclipse today, but its path is restricted to North America Mexico and Canada. We need to stop misinformation in this country.
This is a sun halo!
WHO IS HER MOTHER? Someone needs to drop her @
A parent should protect and nurture their child(ren), not throw to the wolves. This woman is doing that child more harm than good.
She's only 14! That baby needs therapy pronto!!!
i’ll never respect a mother who goes to social media to publicly embarrass their child, i feel where she comin from but why post it ??? that’s gon make her even sneakier
Tanzania's President Samia Suluhu has fired an entire electricity board over repeated blackouts.
She dissolved the Board of the Tanzania Railways Corporation due to mismanagement of $215 million in April.
She sacked the CEO of Tanzania Government Flight Agency over a $49 million fraud.
your lazy girl era has ended sis…the spirit of procrastination can no longer live within you.
you’re entering a new era of growth, productivity, self discovery, self reflection, self awareness, and discipline. tap in sis. 🤲🏽💕