I’m not being shady, asking in earnest, y’all don’t feel it’s wrong to put your child in a situation where they’re the only black child? Like they don’t see themselves anywhere? That’s an uncomfortable experience as an adult I can’t imagine it as a baby. That’s not a disservice?
I take things too personally. Talk to me in a certain tone, say the wrong thing, display body language I find rude, and that’s it. I mentally note it down and forever side eye ppl. I know not everything is about me and some ppl just have bad days but once I’m offended; good luck.
Coming to terms with life looking a lot different than i planned. But it’s okay. It’s my journey. I’m allowed to grieve a life I thought I would live so I can embrace the life and path that is made for me.
Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking I'm a bad person. I have my ways & I have my days, but I'm solid & my love is real & genuine every step of the way🫶🏽
having a man that's in the mood for you everyday. that wants to talk to you everyday no matter how busy he is. a man that craves your touch. a man who cherishes your friendship and advice. a man who desires your presence. a man who provides and protects.
People allergic to too much shit is a deal breaker for me. You can keep them weak ass genetics. Especially peanut butter or seafood be fucking serious.
Some of you need to stop staring at your pictures for so long, because that’s why you never post. You delay, and inspect, and pick apart, and then end up hating the photo you once loved. Instead of spending way too long reviewing content; just upload it.
sometimes a healthy relationship requires the people in it to teach the other how to love them properly. we all come from such different upbringings that what we may deem a sufficient love expression may not be that for the person receiving it from us.
Story of my life:
Tryna pay rent. While tryna pay bills. While tryna pay off debt. While tryna improve my credit score. While tryna save. While tryna heal and be positive. While tryna get back up after being knocked down. While tryna live righteously. While tryna stay happy 🥹
I’ve grown a bit more unhinged over the years and it’s really jus because i surround myself with people that let me be me so i don’t gotta be anything else