Sudden breakups and deaths feel different in my experience
Breakups:
- Hurt a lot in the short term
- Trigger insecurities
- Leave you without clear answers
- Keep hope alive that the person might return
After 6 months, most people accept they’re not coming back
3–4 years later, the real reason barely matters
Those unanswered questions just become data for the next relationship
Eventually, you have a high chance of finding someone new
Deaths:
- You accept faster that the person is gone forever
- But you keep thinking about them for the rest of your life
- No one can truly fill that void
- New life in the family can bring some relief, but the wound never fully heals
- Even decades later, thinking about them still hurts
- The fact that you couldn’t experience the relationship fully stays with you
- You sometimes pray for another life where you get more time together
My worst sudden breakup - the one that hurt the most - doesn’t matter now
I might even thank God for giving me that experience so I could learn and grow
But even after 15 years, I’m still angry at God for taking my father’s life so abruptly, right when we were bonding the most
I still pray for another life where I get to experience a complete relationship with him - one where he plays with his grandkids and watches them grow up
Years later, breakups fade, deaths don’t
Those who have carried unbearable grief recognize it in the eyes of strangers. They know the weight of sleepless nights, the language of forced smiles, and the exhaustion of pretending to be okay. Pain separates us from many things, but somehow it brings us closer to those who have walked through the same darkness. In a world that often rewards strength, sometimes the greatest act of courage is simply sitting beside someone in silence and saying, “You don’t have to carry this alone.”
"वाह! क्या संस्कार हैं! प्रदर्शनकारियों की भाषा को अभद्र बताने वाला BJP IT सेल नाबालिग लड़कियों की निजी जानकारी लीक करके और हमें बजरंग दल की रेप की धमकियां देने से बाज़ नहीं आ रही है।" – AISA All India President Neha Bora (@neha_aisa)
• He’s a good striker of the ball
• He has a good instinct in the box.
• He’s tall and strong as well.
Hamza Abdelkarim might have just been the striker signing we’ve been asking for.
Messi didn’t deserve the 2019 Ballon D’or is the biggest lie ever told
- He had 73 G/A in 51 games
- He won the Laliga and the Pichichi
- He was the top Goal scorer in The Champions league
- Took Barcelona to the Champions league final and scored
- He scored 4 Hatricks that season including the famous old with the standing ovation at the Betis stadium
- Becomes the first footballer to win the Laures award Sportsman of the year
- Laliga Best player
- He scored 8 Freekicks that season
Messi fans you know what to do to debunk their lies
Girls and women don’t owe you civility, old man. Clutching pearls and pretending you’re a victim while kids have DIED BY SUICIDE because of your fuck ups and then YOUR POLICE USED PELLET GUNS AND AK47s AND LATHIS ON PROTESTERS.
Fuck. Right. Off.
Nobody likes you when you're depressed.
Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you are depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.
Casemiro: I want to help Messi to win, to make him even greater, the one who is among the gods, or rather, the GOD of football.
"So I want to enjoy it with him and win with him." 🇧🇷🐐