“They’re using you”. Actually, they’re receiving genuine love from me while they play themselves bc one thing about life, is that it always catches up to you sooner or later. I’ll never regret the kindness I pour out.
Again any thought you dislike should be immediately labelled as silly and meaningless because you have the power to assign meaning and value to what you think. As well as controlling your thought patterns.
curve your impulses by doing literally anything else instead of reacting the way your mind is convincing you to. mindfully put distance in between you and the source that harms you. desperately return to self. even if it’s uncomfortable.
11. My 20's also showed me how much I can harm others and also ways I can harm myself as well. But I learned that one must take responsibility . It takes immense self awareness to accept that one can be a victim and also the villain at the same time
Do better next time
Unfortunately, people are not always going to be brave enough to tell you they're no longer vibing with you. Sometimes, you just have to read the energies, and leave the table. Take some initiative. Let go of the guilt of letting go. Have the courage to walk alone.
i quietly remove myself from situations now. i’m not over explaining myself, i’m not going back & forth, i’m not looking for closure, i’m not causing a scene, nothing. you’ll just never hear from me again. i’m done overextending myself for others.
mail is cool because 99% of the time it’s like a J.c. penney catalogue for a previous tenant and 1% of the time it’s something you’ll go to jail for if you don’t look at
Does anybody else find it weird when people post pictures on their dating profiles holding some one else’s kid?
“Not my kid”
Yeah, so why you posting up with them?