It's a human thing, not a female thing. It happens in different variations.
You show interest in someone and keep showing up while they keep dismissing you and acting indifferent. The day you stop, epiphany hits them that you were genuinely in love with them they could have actually treated you better. They might try to reach out snd do better, but sometimes, it is too late. They get to live with the pain because compared to other alternatives, you were a lot better.
Other occasions, you hurt someone you love and they forgive you and you do it again. A person's grace has limit. When they pull away, you suddenly realize you could have done better. You could even fix the problem and be a better person, but you've lost them. You would wish they gave you another chance but a heart gone, is gone forever. Now you have to live with the guilt.
Therr are other variations of this. Humans are complicated, but actions have consequences.
@I_amkendrick@Jamiej32018030@pallnandi Bro, I no believe my eyes as I read that statement, omo 😲. Women are really not beating the low-IQ allegations at this point. 😭
A guy meets you, you exchange numbers, and he texts you when he gets home.
You ignore him.
The next morning:
HIM “Good morning. How are you doing today?”
YOU “Fine.”
HIM “What are you up to?”
YOU “Nothing.”
Then you wonder why men “don’t pursue women anymore.” Why give out your number if you had no interest?
Men are not chasing women who make basic conversation feel like a job interview.
Reciprocate the energy. Be kind. Be interested. Be polite. Be respectful.
“Good morning. How are you doing today?”
“I’m fine, thank you. How are you?”
It really shouldn’t be that hard.