Ordered a huge order from @SHEIN_Official express delivery 11 days ago and just received an apology note to say it’s been delayed and offered 50 points… 50 points aren’t going to help me when I’ve got nothing to wear on holiday huns 😭😭😭
apologies are cute but i value understanding more. when you can truly communicate that you fully understand what hurts and can apologize from that place, then i feel it. i want a healthy conversation where we reach an intimate understanding, not an “oh i’m sorry”
apologizing to myself for all the times i blindly allowed people who continuously invalidated my emotions near me. i didn’t deserve that. i deserved better. i now know why i allowed it and i no longer allow it but i still mourn the times i didn’t know any better.