I stayed with a man who was half ready. I hoped. I waited. I extended grace. I tried to meet him where he was instead of honoring where I was. Over time, his lack of readiness pulled me out of my character. I became reactive. I became hardened. I started responding in ways that were not aligned with who I am. That is what misalignment does. It erodes you.
Porn is such a sneaky addiction.
Most guys have already been using it for years by the time they realize it's harmful, and by then, the hooks are in so deep that it's hard to stop.
my college professor once told us: "go have fun the entire day, but once you're back home, study for just 2 hours. you'll be in a completely different league"
few know how deep this is