I respect someone who’s vocal. Tell me why you’re into me… tell me why I pissed you off… tell me how I can fix it. I don’t want guessing games. I want honesty, tension, and real conversations. Talk to me.
i used to love tf out of some people & would do anything for them until i finally sat down & counted how many times they proudly & selfishly said fuck me. The love ain't even there no more Respectfully.
no amount of love, patience, understanding, or “seeing the good” in someone will make them change if they don’t want to. staying longer doesn’t prove loyalty... it just teaches people what you’re willing to tolerate. sometimes the lesson isn’t about them at all… it’s about learning when to walk away
Falling out of love is one thing but slowly realizing your friend isn't a good person/not in alignment with you and needs to be let go is a pain that isn't talked about enough
Being disliked by people with ugly spirits is actually a form of divine protection, not rejection. When your frequency gets too high, it starts to irritate demons the way sunlight irritates mold. They can’t stand your glow because it exposes their shadows. That’s why
Accountability is so important to me. Nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match.
healthy friendships and relationships aren’t found, they’re built. the reason they’re so rare to be in is because nobody wants to admit that they can’t sit in the discomfort that comes with bettering their communication, conflict resolution skills, and emotional regulation.