Anything we do short of "lay down and die" will be used against us. And even if it's absurd? And you'd think folks would see the obvious absurdity?
They will say "Trans people threatened me." and regulars will go "That's horrible." and nothing you say will add context afterward
Yesterday I reassured someone that "taking turns" w orgasm during partnered sex is REALLY NORMAL & something many people (& nearly all queers) do. The myth of the simultaneous hetero orgasm has ruined us!!! It's not awkward or unsexy to take turns making sure we're all satisfied.
my wife (shes a good person) and i wake up every morning ( grateful) and bring our coffee(its fair trade) out to our garden(our parents helped us with the down payment) and sit and talk for hours (before we start work). it never gets old (i realize this may change). i love her
At the end of the day a job is a job and your boss is stealing the surplus value of your labor. Never feel any allegiance towards them and don't believe them when they say you're a family. Take care of yourself and do what it takes to survive, you can always do good elsewhere.
@ahouse4all I’ll never forget the job I had where they always refused to let me use “wellness time” they provided (bc they “weren’t like those greedy corporate jobs”) My insufferable boss played guitar regularly while we drown in work & lack of proper staffing. I was paid $9/hr. No raises.
My advice to young college kids aspiring to work at non-profits: Don't. Go work for a soulless corporation that pays you in real money and has a decent work life balance and volunteer with a mutual aid org on your own time. These non profits are good person soul sucking vampires.
Autistic kids might not be motivated by the same rewards as their non-autistic peers. Golden time? No thanks, too unstructured and loud. Lunch with the headteacher? No thanks, too stressful to maintain a conversation. Consider that the ‘rewards’ might actually be stressful.
timothée chalamet is the new benedict cumberbatch in the sense that you can say ANYTHING and we know who you mean. tiffany chevrolet. timpanogos charlemagne. symphony cabernet. jiminy castaway.
@nastygobbogrl My cousin bought a mug that was like $50 bc it was official Disney Hocus Pocus merch that people were staking out like Pokémon cards. $50. One cauldron shaped mug. It wasn’t even cool looking lol