Clavicular and Patrick Bet David give their rules for young men:
- Dating your friends ex
- Letting your girl have a guy best friend
- Moving out of your hometown
- Goes to church
- Can’t change a tire
- Gets botox work
- Cries in public
- Goes clubbing every weekend
History is about to reset.
In 1997, two historians mapped an 80-year pattern:
Revolution.
Civil War.
World War II.
Each cycle ends the same way — a hard reset.
And right on schedule…
we’re standing at the crisis again.
Four turnings.
Four types of people who decide what comes next.
Your role depends on when you were born.
This is Part 1 of “History Repeats. We’re at the Dangerous Part.”
Watch it. Then tell me we’re not in the Fourth Turning. 🎥
For Most Women, Asking For Sex Isn't a 6 Out of 10. It's Zero.
Almost no woman is sensually aroused or stimulated by the sentence "so… you wanna go do it?"
Men probably ask because asking feels like the respectful thing to do. And he doesn't want to get you upset, bother you or offend you. What do YOU hear when he asks for it?
Most women don't run on spontaneous desire. The wanting shows up in RESPONSE to something — touch, attention, tension, a man who's visibly enjoying her — rather than arriving on its own at 10pm. Researchers call this responsive desire.
There's also the matter of the four hundred decisions she's already made today. At 10pm she was hoping to stop being the one who decides, or has to think, or the one who makes another decision.
So don't put it to a vote. Kiss her eight seconds longer than the moment called for, then go do the dishes. At 4pm, tell her what you intend to do to her later, and then make her wait for it. Watch her the whole time — if she goes still or turns away, you stop, and you don't sulk about it.
Ladies, the comment section is yours today. Tell the men what actually happened the last time one asked you.
Want me to teach the two of you together, in the same room? That's my job.
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