Stupid people have no inhibition which is why they end up as dead end addicts or criminals and also the largest part of why they “get pussy.” The type of woman attracted to scumbags isn’t a universal type and it’s not a type you’d want anything to do and she WILL cheat.
The less seriously you take something, the more it'll work out. Doesn't mean you don't care. You just have to remove the heaviness around the situation
Rings especially true for any sort of money related pursuit. Starting a business, trading crypto, etc. You're not out here being held hostage with a bomb strapped to your chest
No single mistake is ever fatal. You can literally do whatever you want. You're going to mess up a little. Of course. Who cares. Why does always needing to get it right matter so much to you. Why does the thought of failure fill you with so much anxiety
It's no different from a video game. Play the first level with no idea what you're doing. Lose and respawn. Keep playing. Lose and respawn again. Eventually figure out a strategy and move onto the next level. Few months later, you realize you somehow became kind of good at the game. Almost out of nowhere
Really is that simple. Step into an arena of choice. Proverbially pick up and put down some weights. You have weird form, no idea what reps or sets mean, etc. Whatever. Go back every day. Before you know it, your biceps suddenly look bigger. You weren't even conscious of how or when they grew
This is the game of life. Games are fun. Games are meant to be played, not pondered. So stop treating your pursuits any differently. Care a lot but not too much. Hold both beliefs at once, you're guaranteed to win
You make the most money when you operate as if you already have a lot of it. However you think you'd be moving if you were rich, just move that way today
Starting your own business? The poor version of you needs everything to be guaranteed. No you can't give away product without a partnership agreement in place. No you can't perform a service without getting paid upfront first. Wait what if these actions lead to nothing
The wealthy version of you doesn't care. You're already free so you don't need things to work out the way you want in the time you want. You hand out value because doing so will simply get your name out there. You identify someone who would benefit from your help so you just help them because you can
Then a couple months later you're flooded with introductions, customers, clients, etc. Some were the product of a referral from one person you told "it's cool we'll figure out the payment details later let's just get this across the finish line." Others were the result of someone messaging you "hey love your stuff, do you do any consulting?" and then it turned into a insanely lucrative offer
None of which would've happened had you optimized for narrow outcomes instead of energetic momentum. Being light on your feet, putting yourself out there, doing things for the sake of doing things, having "nothing to lose" if you fail because your cup of perceived security is perpetually overflowing
Easiest way to understand the whole manifestation concept. Not some fantasy of imagining things and having them appear out of thin air. But rather embodying a certain frequency of spiritual abundance, and allowing this to shape your physical actions. The same actions that prosperity create are the same actions that create the prosperity
I'm a millionaire. You tell me to prove it. I show you my bank balance, but it shows a zero. You call me a liar, but then I show you a pending wire for a million dollars that's in the process of being cleared. It's not reflected in my account yet, but now it makes you believe me
Why though? The proof was supposed to be the number shown on the bank balance, but somehow it shifted to the word "pending" instead? Again, the funds still haven't hit, nor is it a guarantee that they will. The bank could still flag it, delay it, or potentially even block it
Really think about this. What actually "proves" whether something is true or not? What if your bank balance pointed to you being "broke" but there was a rich relative who recently passed away, had your name in the will, but you didn't find out about it yet? Does this actually mean you're not "wealthy" yet?
Point is, the concept of "proof" is completely subjective. Guy with 7 figures shown in his Chase app can call himself a millionaire. Guy with 5 figures shown in his Chase app, but who genuinely believes that the business he started is worth 7 figures and time just hasn't caught up yet, can also call himself a millionaire. The "proof?" Well look at his confidence. His level of faith. His undeniable love for the game
Act as if you're already the ideal version of yourself, as if you're already living out your ideal reality in the present moment, and it'd actually be true. Being able to generate that internal conviction is all the "proof" you need in order for it to be true
Now it's just a matter of letting reality rearrange in the background, letting abundance flow to you according to the frequencies you're broadcasting out into the world. Whatever comes into your life, however and whenever it does, it'll simply serve as additional confirmation that continues to support the "proof" you already have in your mind, as opposed to creating the "proof" itself