@unhaengilcheol@Naaa_bid@tanyarlfes Sebagai orang yg sering bgt sleep paralysis ini benerrrr bgt. tiba2 ada aja yg kliatan, trs berisikkkkk bgt ky ada org ngobrol, nangis, teriak² pake bahasa yg g jelas.
Tp bisa banget kok buat g melek, biar g keliatan yg aneh2 jd bisa fokus buat lepas dr tindihannya
I have a co-worker who never announces anything. You don’t know she applied for a promotion until she’s already in the new office. You don’t realize she bought her own place until she casually mentions “heading home to finish painting.” She doesn’t post milestones. Doesn’t crowdsource opinions. Doesn’t invite commentary.
I used to think she was secretive. That success was supposed to be shared loudly. That excitement needed an audience.
Now I see it differently.
She moves with intention. Quiet. Focused. Certain. Her plans are protected while they’re still fragile. Her joy isn’t diluted by outside noise. She lets things grow roots before she shows the world the bloom.
It isn’t secrecy. It’s discernment. It’s peace. It’s self-trust.
Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who build their lives softly, without applause, and let their results speak when they’re ready.
Baru aja denger definisi financial independence yg sangat menarik dari Prita Ghozie:
1. Tidak menjadikan ortu dana darurat
2. Tidak menjadikan anak dana pensiun
3. Tidak menjadikan teman sumber paylater
Sebagai muslim, aku tunduk pd satu ajaran bahwa hutang akn dibawa mati. Maka, sepelan apapun jalanku, aku tetap mengupayakan satu tujuan: debt free.
Doaku tetap sama,Ya Allah, lunaskanlah hutangku, dan bebaskan aku dari beban yang tak ingin kubawa pulang.
DEBT FREE. Aamiin.
@tanyarlfes Beli rumah, slow living di pinggiran kota sama kucing. Soalnya jujur gabung ama ortu energy draining bgt :( Ada aja yg di keluhin.
Tp pas umur 27 akhirnya nikah, ttp tercapai beli rumah di pinggiran kota, slow living sama kuching bonus suwami 🤣
@sbyfess Gini tuh termasuk passive aggressive g sih?
Mending ngamukk mba trus minta buatin jemuran indoor. Soale cuaca full hujan, mesti resiko klo jemur di luar
Parents can say the most hurtful things to you while your brain is still developing, shape your entire adult mindset, and then forget they ever said it by the next day.
being religious doesn’t mean you’re a good person. faith without kindness is just performance. beliefs don’t matter if they’re not reflected in empathy, accountability, and how you treat people when no one’s watching. character shows up in actions, not in labels or rituals
@tanyarlfes Perintis here ☝️ nabung 60% gaji selama 4 thn nder, Berdua ama calon suami. 2 thn dpt beli tanah + pondasi. Tahun ke 4 rumah udah berdiri. Kita udh nikah jd di tempati sama dikit2 nyicil finishing 😆