Aren't u really happy tht u will not get used n ur kindness n humanity n will not taken for granted now? Tht leech n unethical person who supposedly made ur lyf a disaster is no longer in ur life...isn’t everythng peaceful now?
Isn't it btfl tht someone who has ruined ur lyf n made u miserable is not anymore in ur lyf to make it worse? Isn't it comforting who only traumatized u n used u for her well being n never did anything for u isn't there to harass u?
We often romanticize the path we did not take in life.
The career we didn't choose.
The person we didn't marry.
The opportunities we let go.
Our mind quietly edits out the struggles that path would have brought and compares its imagined perfection to the real difficulties of the life we are living.
It is a psychological defense.
Believing the other path would have been easier is an escape from the current painful reality.
Every meaningful path comes with its own price.
The question isn't whether you chose the perfect road.
The road not taken isn't your problem.
Looking back instead of moving forward is your problem.
#wisdom
There is a Japanese legend that says:
If you miss the bus, maybe you avoided the accident.
If you got rejected, maybe you were saved from the wrong place.
If they left, maybe they made room for someone better.
The universe protects you in ways that look like bad luck at first.
Evry1 has sm lvl of toxicity. I alwys wonder hw sm ppl nvr stop 2 thnk tht they might be toxic 2 sm1 else. They see themslvs as kind n harmless evn whn their behavior leaves others feeling suffocated n hurt. D hardest part is tht they nvr realize they r d ones causing d pain.
i let people go whn it becomes too unbearable for me to stay. whn nthng I do is enough whn I can nvr meet their expectations n i can't live in peace. May be I wl be d villain in their story may be d worst person in their eyes bt staying alive mattered more to me.
From childhood many of us are taught to keep others happy even if it means ignoring our own feelings. That's how people pleasing starts. There is a thin line between being polite and abandoning yourself. You don't have to keep performing just to make everyone else comfortable.
hope u never measure ur worth by what u can give. hope u are loved on the days when u have nothing left to offer n cherished even more on those days. hope u are celebrated on the days u feel invisible n never forget that ur existence is valuable even in ur darkest moments.