@inimisac@portraitofcain do you know who you're replying to? a person with an ed. not everyone shares your opinion that you think is universal. it's not toxic, it's a preference.
I hate when people are so disingenuous about this “just get the bigger size”. It’s very realistic and understandable to be upset that certain looks will read completely differently on a different body size/shape. The silhouette is completely different.