My life got better when I realized I didn't have to be nice. Nice got me ran over, stressed out, & disrespected. I'm not nice. Im a good person. There's a difference.
Respectfully, I donโt go above and beyond for ppl anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me.
well it turns out that you thought you were mad at them for not being available for you when you needed but you were ultimately more mad at yourself for always being available for them because you have no boundaries and consistently put other peopleโs well-being over your own.