@justalexoki I literally remember being embarrassed having an orgasm in the back of my parent’s car because I couldn’t stop thinking about gay pirates. I thought about sex 50% of the time before puberty, and it was basically 90% of the time once puberty hit.
I think part of it is also that people have an inherent desire for karmic justice to exist in the universe. And in there mind, being a woman that has had a lot of casual, kinky sex is ‘bad’ and therefore can not be rewarded with a happy, fulfilling life, marriage, and husband. So it makes people especially vitriolic
I really want to be fucked by a guy wearing a fursuit. I don’t find fursuits hot but I just want to experience the novelty. Also a great icebreaker fact!
I’d imagine that catastrophic risks (like death) are probably still less in ‘safer’ activities, but smaller day-to-day risks like sprains and strains are probably less of a risk in groups that practice high risk awareness and mitigation.
I know that this varies for everyone, but I am now highly suspicious of sleeping with men that say that they don’t like any BDSM. The roughest, most consent-violating sex I’ve had has been with someone that claimed not to be into it.
Interacting with the world always has the chance for harm. You can and people have been stabbed just walking down the road. Add in hobbies like horseback riding and skydiving, and the risk increases. Somehow I don’t see anyone saying that people should be ashamed for hosting show jumping events because there’s a risk of being hurt (or to dip into recent events in the industry, a jealous competitor stabbing your horse). Bad actors are going to act no matter where they are, and most people understand that that is a risk and that organizations that take reasonable steps to reduce those risks and disallow harmful people are not blame-bearers. Weird how only when sex and kink are brought into the equation that suddenly everyone is acting like individuals are not capable of consenting to reasonable and mitigated levels of risk. Almost makes it seem like the complaints are just thinly veiled attacks on people that participate in kink and atypical sexual relationships instead of genuine concern for people harmed.
Still constantly battling the feeling that I’m too weird to have friends. I still remember the day in high school that the girl that wore a Naruto headband every day told me I wasn’t allowed to sit with her at lunch
Yes, not 100% sure but that’s my inclination. And I know the likelihood of that happening is very low- I’ve only had romantic feelings for one person- but it is a possibility. So if someone is Ok with that possibility- with having a connection with me even though I might not ever feel romantically toward them- then I would really like to give it a try.
I think I want to actually make a Date Me doc but not only is the format foreign to me, but I genuinely don’t know any of my positive attributes. Can someone hot help me? Will pay in BJs.
@IronLordByron That’s a very good question and tbh I’m still trying to figure that out too. I just know that I want to connect more deeply and in more unique ways than I currently am with my friends
Not understanding this is honestly to me an indicator of low-intelligence. It’s like those people that brag that they totally wouldn’t be traumatized by killing a person. Unless it happens to you, you have idea how your body and mind will respond, and pretending otherwise shows a lack of rationality, imagination, and empathy.
I thought I wouldn’t be that upset when I got my mastectomy. They’re just fat, right? I’m ugly anyway so what does it matter? I cannot begin to explain to you how fundamentally wounded and wronged I felt- even for something that probably saved my life.
Also all those guys imagine this scenario as if they’re being raped by a reasonably attractive woman, but that’s not a fair comparison (not that that can’t be traumatizing in its own right). A far more apt comparison is being raped by a man.
a lot of incels posting “rape isn’t violent, i’d just get over it” and all i can think of is the journalist who thought waterboarding “wasn’t torture” only to volunteer to go through it and last less than 20 seconds before tapping out to admit he was completely wrong.
You should get a housemate that has a cute dog. You get all the fun of having a dog without any of the responsibility. It’s like being the cool aunt/uncle to your sibling’s kid. This is purely a public service announcement and not in any way an attempt to sneak into someone’s household.
@Glawk_40@InnocentlyEris Nope! Though I guess mine is an asterisk because I do have a primary partner but we never dated- I got grandfathered into a preexisting relationship. But the whole getting to know each other, going on dates, honeymoon phase and crush stuff- all foreign to me.
Yeah I definitely don’t conceptualize you as an edge lord. Edgelords are a purposeful pushing of societal boundaries and decorum for the purpose of making others uncomfortable or evoking a reaction . I think you do a lot of those same things but because they’re what you want and believe and any reaction is totally superfluous to you. I don’t know you well but that’s my superficial reading