After divorce or a breakup, a lot of men don't heal. They replace. The first woman who smiles, flirts, texts back, or shows a little interest suddenly becomes "the one." Not because she's extraordinary, but because the silence is unbearable. The empty house, the empty bed, the empty weekends, and the empty space where a relationship used to be create a panic that masquerades as love. So they settle fast and attach hard. This also explains why many breakups hit them like a freight train. They weren't losing a woman as much as they were losing their escape from being alone. A man who fears solitude becomes emotionally dependent on whoever occupies that space. Kill one-itis or it will kill you. Meet women. Date women. Talk to women. Learn that abundance is real. The moment you realize there are millions of women and only one of you, you stop clinging, start choosing, and become far more attractive in the process.