yet again husband and I are having trouble getting stuff done bc we can't stop talking. this is a common problem for us. accidentally staying up too late because our conversation is too interesting, etc
I said "ok let's stop talking for now" and he agreed. minutes later I called out "hey I just got a crazy idea" without thinking. ah shit. he came over to talk with me. we agreed we should stop after this one last thing. I told him about it, and then right away he started on something else. I said no we have to stop. I told him we should try complete silence for 30min to break the cycle. that's where we're at now. TBD if we will survive another 25min of this
Continuing the whole “I put words to things usually left to implication” theme, I explained why I opened up to someone by saying: “I had to decide I wanted to connect with you more than I wanted to keep listening to my fear”
@ trying to get rid of romantic feelings for a man by asking him about social issues, especially the intricacies of consent
Pro: It usually works!!
Con: When it doesn’t work, it just makes you fall for him harder
Wrote (and sent) this to my now-partner when we both were in denial that we began looking at each other as more than friends. I’m glad we ruined the friendship! (-:
i have read this letter about a hundred times and i have sobbed every single time. love is all there is, all that matters, all that you are supposed to live for and if need be, die for.
sick of being lonely, i wanna go out with someone and do things, i wanna lay with them and listen to music and play games together, ive never even held someone’s hand before
i’ve tasted having a crush, i’ve tasted being in a talking stage, and i’ve tasted liking someone new. i highly recommend finding a new hobby and focusing on your dreams and goals.