@cantsmokehere emdr is the best thing i’ve ever done for my ptsd. it sucks for a while and she’ll probably be tired and sad for a bit but i don’t regret it at all
might delete idk but
it's the "everyone wants to save the world but no one wants to help mom do the dishes" thing to me. they want to be hero of the day saving women in dark streets but never tackle the everyday things/ppl (incl themselves) contributing to rape culture