I'm a straight, white, cis male. I've lived in rural and urban areas. White neighborhoods, black neighborhoods. Red states, blue states. The demographic I am most uncomfortable around is, and has always been, conservative white men. You're not forced to be racist, you just suck.
i still think it's kind of crazy how back in 2012 one of the most-watched shows by young children (a nickelodeon sitcom) had a whole song dedicated to two of the female leads telling guys harassing them to go eat shit. and it fucking banged too
when my bestie passed they had her in this ugly dress and no lash strips, we knew she would’ve hated it. a few of us and her cousin made sure to have the funeral home put on her favorite pair of lashes before the burial. people process grief in different ways and making sure the person has what they wanted in death is an important part of that process