Does Gen Z know there’s A LOT of women that got STDs, STIs, HPV and HIV/AIDS while in committed partnerships and marriages ?
I don’t get their argument regarding that when it comes to casual sex
this is why i stand by the rhetoric that you don’t need to be “fully healed” to be in a relationship bc one, we never finish healing, that’s not something we ever stop doing, and two, love teaches heals and changes for the better
As a woman who catches feelings through conversation and genuinely wants to understand a man, dating feels exhausting. men are so dry lately... what some men fail to realize is that stimulating a woman’s mind can feel like foreplay. being able to get lost in meaningful conversation without turning everything sexual is genuinely beautiful.
Yes… the man I was dating couldn’t even buy me a cake in two whole years of dating. 😂😂 Thinking about it now genuinely breaks my heart. Like, damn… I really accepted crumbs and called it love.
So freeing to realize you don’t actually need to solve someone’s inner life to decide what their behavior means for you. Maybe they love you deeply & are still too dysregulated, avoidant, selfish, overwhelmed, whatever to treat you well. You can believe that and still leave
i’m tripping about Raven using the “take color away and make them green” girl CHILDREN watched Backyardigans and could tell who was black and they wasn’t even real like girl.