Loving an avoidant is watching someone you love slowly convince themselves that losing you is easier than fighting for you. They’ll call it protecting their peace but sometimes it’s just fear dressed up as detachment. and the hardest part is realizing you can love someone deeply and still not love them enough to make them choose vulnerability over running away.
someone told me, “never trust a man who would rather teach you a lesson than make sure you feel safe.” and honestly, i had to share. the right person won’t punish you for having feelings they’ll care about how you feel.
i am blessed 𓂃 ゚。🦋 ⋆ ⟡
𓂃 ゚。🌿 ⋆ ⟡ i am healthy
i am glowing 𓂃 ゚。🌱 ⋆ ⟡
𓂃 ゚。🌸 ⋆ ⟡ i am wealthy
i am deserving 𓂃 ゚。🪻 ⋆ ⟡
𓂃 ゚。🧚🏽♂️ ⋆ ⟡ i am confident
i am grateful 𓂃 ゚。🪷 ⋆ ⟡
𓂃 ゚。🐉 ⋆ ⟡ i am successful
if i could make you understand just how badly you made me feel, you would probably never be able to look me in the eyes again.
because you didn't just hurt me in the moment. you changed the way i saw myself, and i don't think you'll ever fully understand what that cost me.