by the time you hit your early 30s you’ll have met basically the worst people alive multiple times over who wrong you in shocking, cosmically horrific ways and you usually just have to find a way to forgive them and move on / accept the lack of closure or your spirit suffers
i allocated so much importance to people who are largely inconsequential now. i'm humbled by what i thought i knew. it's almost a relief that nobody is mine. people can be encountered and embraced, but they can't be possessed. the thought of it, acknowledging it, so freeing .
Every man saying this is has the mindset of a rapist and an incel. Not only are you completely illiterate and incompetent when it comes to analyzing media, you also are likely the problem in every single relationship you have ever been in and every will be in. I can only pray that no woman ever again has that misfortune!!