The price you pay for ignoring your intuition is far greater than the cost of trusting it. Your body can pick up bad vibrations: If you’re listening to a song and something about it feels wrong, turn it off. If a situation/opportunity doesn't feel right, walk way. Trust your gut.
i refuse to sacrifice my peace and comfort just to keep someone in my life. i refuse to allow consistent disrespect from someone just to keep them in my life.
your partner coming to you about something you’re doing wrong isn’t a personal attack. It’s a sign they value the relationship – it's a heads up. You communicate, you fix it, you stay. That's emotional maturity. That's love.
I really don’t like too private of a relationship. I find it so weird to not love your partner out loud. No posts, no flirting in the comments, you don’t like or repost their stuff. Little stuff like that always been strange to me
I promise you, being alone teaches you a lot about yourself, it's so worth it. Vibing alone to work on yourself and figure things out is top tier self-care.
Everybody isn't your friend. Just because they hang around you and laugh with you doesn't mean they are your friend. People pretend a lot. At the end of the day, real situations expose fake people, so pay attention.
The highest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you.
The iceberg model (e.g.: the “iceberg” success memes) hasn’t been resonating with me lately for a few reasons, so I’ve been experimenting with different imagery. I’m thinking a lot of roots, extending beyond what is frame-able…all that is unseen but still a part of who we are.
A 24-year-old woman was working out at her apartment complex’s gym in Florida when a man approached and attacked her. At one point, she used her cellphone to hit him in the face. Officials said the man was arrested.
A cycle breaker is the visionary of the family. The person who can see the dysfunction and believes there’s a different way to experience life. They tend to be seekers who are open and curious yet willing to be misunderstood.
love is really stored in “have u eaten?” “are u home?” “how are u?” “i thought of you in this” “i bought ur favorite book” “i cooked something for u” “i got this is ur fav color” “i remember when you did this” “i made a playlist for u” “i will pray for you” “rooting for you”
Seeing how much the world accepts that it’s impossible to move on after watching CPR really makes me think about how we (medical professionals, especially those who work in Emergency departments) are expected to just move on immediately after a code.