Before marriage: “I love you”
After marriage: “You rest, i’ll take care of the laundry.” / “I’ll cook.”
After having children: “Shhh, dont disturb Mummy. Mummy is sleeping.”
Different sentences, same meaning.
I pray to marry a man who says, "Let me ask my wife first."
Not because he’s controlled by her, but because he respects her voice, values her wisdom, and honors her presence in every decision. That’s not weakness, that’s love wrapped in respect.