@keysmashbandit it’s all bullshit. people treat it like a clinical diagnosis and it serves as a form of learned helplessness in relationships “i am this thing so i will always act this way” and i think it depends, you may be more anxious with one, avoidant with the next, secure with another
cats will lay on you and get upset that you are touching their tail… but i am not touching your tail, you are hitting your own tail against my arm and getting mad at ME for it. nonsensical
The smartphone really revolutionized the waiting room. Oh I get 20 minutes to look at my phone? Don’t mind if I do. The only problem is sometimes when I’m looking at my phone at home my home starts to feel like a waiting room and I realize it is and I’m just waiting to die