@jessfauve@zero2fire Yes! We did four years of long distance marriage, three while I was in grad school and my husband was a resident, then a year together, and then another year apart while I was a postdoc and he was a fellow.
Confession: totally forgot about this account over the past 11 months. So here’s my update: had a new baby, built a new house, started a new job in bioengineering. 🎉
@AGreenMonster Direct quote from PI: “We have coomassie levels of protein. I saw the gel with my own eyes.” Quote from postdoc: “It is nickel purified.” Actual reality: they have a gel which does not even show expression after IPTG induction. 🤣😂😫🖕🏻
And I am supposed to use said “recombinant protein” to do a pull down and ITC and use this data to write a subaim for their grant... in two weeks. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
When a collaborator assures you they have recombinant protein available, but what they actually have is an unsequenced plasmid... which they haven’t been able to express. 😐
@LadyScientist@duffy_ma But the important thing to remember is the all young stage doesn’t last long! Your oldest will be way more independent! That’s why I feel like our hang ups are so silly - it’s all just for a few years out of an entire lifetime.
@LadyScientist@duffy_ma Like, how could I ever fly anywhere on my own when there are only 3 seats in an airplane row but me plus 3 kids? Which is so silly to use as a reason to not have more.
@LadyScientist@duffy_ma People I know with loads of siblings loved big families and want big ones themselves! We just get so hung up on the logistics because we never experienced the fun sides of it.
@LadyScientist As an only child married to an only child, I cannot process the chaos, loudness, and extreme fun and adventures that must come from 3 children.
Con: Sitter cancelled, so date night holiday gift to ourselves has a 2 year old third wheel who has to sit on my lap at a table for two. Pro: no need to change out of my jeans or brush my hair, because clearly this doesn’t count as date night anymore.
@challdreams All good. Two full time jobs plus toddler plus community leadership positions just leaves me barely treading water at the moment. Hope all is well with you?