If you want to be the type of man who cannot be stopped, you have to build your life around ideas that you created from nothing. its the only way, because when you are living in someone elses reality you are always at their mercy. but when you are the source of the thoughts that drive you, nobody can turn you against yourself. you have a confidence that comes from knowing you can burn down your whole existence and build it back up again, because you did it once already, from nothing, with no blueprint. so why would you ever fear the judgment of another mortal, or submit to another mans vision, when you have proved you can build worlds inside your own mind
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You become harder to manipulate when you stop confusing someoneโs disappointment with your wrongdoing. Not every unhappy person has been wronged by you.โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
If you want to get married because you think it is all love, sex, and happy moments, I am here to warn you. You are in for a rude shock.
Marriage is also bills, tired nights, disagreements, in-laws, silence, responsibility, and days when you donโt even like each other. The romance doesn't stay forever, you will fight some days.
If you are only prepared for the sweet part, the disagreement and boring part will break you.
Marry because you are ready to build, lead, forgive, and endure.
Donโt marry because you want a permanent honeymoon.
That version does not exist.
In life, you will fall out with people that you never thought you would. Get betrayed by people you trusted with all of your heart. And get used by people you would do anything for. But life also has a beautiful side to it. You will get loved by someone you never thought you would have. From new friendships with people that will establish more meaningful and stronger relationships. And overcome things you never thought you would get over. We all have chapters that end with people at some point in life. But take pride in knowing that the very best part of your book is still being written.
The traits that make women attractive are far more limited than those that make men attractive.
Men can be attractive for hundreds of different things. Women, comparatively, seem to be attractive for only a handful: beauty, care, & cooking. A man only want quality sex, good food, and someone who genuinely cares for him. But beyond that, what else does she really need to provide? Or what else can she provide? Nothing.
Now look at what women expect from men.
Safety, so he can be attractive through strength. Status, so he can be attractive through power. Money, so he can be attractive through wealth. Looks, so he can make her friends jealous. Intelligence, so he can make decisions. Humor, so life with him is actually fun. Excellence, so she can get a share from his fame. Protection, competence, leadership, social ability, and a hundred other things.
The asymmetry is obvious. Women can outsource an enormous amount of what they need to men. Men, comparatively, seem to demand far less from women beyond beauty, affection, care, and domestic competence.
That's why male attractiveness has always been such a complicated thing to build.
A man has to become useful in a hundred different dimensions.
A woman can be extraordinarily desirable by mastering only a few.
A woman's life is simple because men made it so. A man's life is hard because women made it so.
The universe will make sure you'll win if you just believe in yourself. Universe doesnโt reward talent, luck, or intelligence first , it rewards the one who believe in themselves. let me remind you every good thing that you have in your life came after you decided to believe in it. even when nothing seems to be working. even when it feels quiet. even when your faith starts to shake a little. keep believing. keep visualizing. Keep showing up like it's already yours. Universe moves in silence before it reveals its magic. what you can't see is still unfolding. what feels delayed is simply on its right time. your belief is the bridge between where you are and where you're meant to be. Hold the vision a little longer cause It's already on its way to you. Manifest the sh!t out of it!!!
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you, too, fall short.
@SahilBloom Resilience is not never falling; it is reducing the time you spend living on the ground.
The real skill is learning how to begin again without carrying yesterdayโs failure into todayโs attempt.
@Vincentt1987 A veces perder una relaciรณn tambiรฉn significa recuperar partes de ti que habรญas dejado de lado. No hace falta demostrarle nada a nadie; volver a disfrutar de tu propia vida ya es una forma de empezar de nuevo.
The older you get, the more you realize how rare it is to find people who just want your company.
Not your favors, your usefulness or what you can do for them. Just you.
The kind of people happy with a coffee, a slow walk, sitting in your kitchen while you yap about life.
No hidden agenda. Just genuine comfort in each other's presence.
And when you find those people, please treasure them.
Your confidence should be based on what you are, not what you have.
Everything you have can be taken from you, and probably will be at some point.
What you are can never be taken from you.
A lot of life advice just comes down to this: Do uncomfortable things sooner. The delayed conversation gets harder. The ignored problem expands. The minor repair becomes a major one. Peace isn't found through avoidance. The calm life is earned through early action.