Can cancel me for this, but people who use Snapchat, Instagram and TikTok are some of the most degenerate people. Three of the worst apps to ever exist. And if you're on Instagram or TikTok just to doomscroll, you shouldn't be taken seriously.
L’homme devrait surpasser la femme en âge, taille, richesse et lignée.
La femme, elle, devrait le surpasser en beauté, pudeur, piété et bon caractère.
Sinon, les époux finiront par se mépriser.
Some of you are figuring out for the first time that women are crazy. The next step is recognizing that this isn't a bad thing. Women are supposed to be playing with children, living in a fantasy dream world in the center of a family, constantly making up stories, trying to make everyone around them happy, creating the circumstances for whimsy and joy, adding beauty to the world with careful attention to details that nobody else thinks matter, possessing the ability to be delicate and soft and funny even when things are really hard. Women are supposed to be crazy.
Sylvia Plath killed herself by sticking her head in an oven. She was mentally unwell.
People love to idolise her as a feminist symbol for expressing these type of thoughts, but these aren’t feminist thoughts. These are the thoughts of a depressed person.
“I have to frolic around in my nightgown while my husband goes out all day and WORKS!”
Put her in a 9-5 and she would have complained about that too.
The Prophet of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"Shyness & talking less are two branches of Faith, Rude talk & talking too much can Lead to hypocrisy and sin."
[Jami at-Tirmidhi]
Intimacy isn’t limited to sex. It’s crying in front of each other without embarrassment. Whispering at 2 a.m. Talking about childhood wounds and old fears. Visiting places that shaped who you became. Sitting beside each other without needing to speak. Knowing what the other person needs without being told. Sometimes intimacy is simply feeling completely understood.
i think everyone should have a list of characters and traits they want in a partner and 1) embody those traits yourself 2) this allows you to get closer to who your person actually is
how they want you to live:
1. wake up from awful alarm clock
2. brush teeth with toxic fluoride
3. shower in heavy metal chlorine water
4. put on aluminum deoderant
5. spray infertility causing cologne
6. put on plastic clothes
7. work at a job you hate all day
8. eat seed oil lunch and dinner
9. watch netflix programming at night with blue lights
10. can't sleep from the lighting
11. doomscroll til midnight
12. take sleeping pills to fall asleep
then go to the doctor and ask for pills when youre inevitably sick and depressed
escape the machine
sunlight increases longevity. forest walking lowers blood pressure. touching grass lowers inflammation. the ocean reduces depression. playing in dirt boosts immune function.
nature is not optional.
youre not sick. youre just nature deficient.
I hate how many women have turned the idea of “trad” as in “traditional values” into being nothing more than a spoilt brat. It’s just prostitution with extra steps. They treat relationship with men like a transaction then wonder why there is no love.
One of the greatest cheat codes in life is to never get offended. Train yourself to have thick skin. Don't take things personally. Let others disagree with you. Being easily offended means you're easily manipulated. If you value peace of mind, avoid getting offended.
Some women don’t flirt with people. They flirt with life. Extra twenty minutes at the café. Fresh flowers for no reason. Music while getting dressed. Taking the scenic way because the sky looks good. There’s a little romance happening between her and being alive.
Words that need to be removed and burnt at the stake:
foid, moid, babe, boyfriend, girlfriend, situationship, fwb
Words that need to be nurtured lovingly back like a sick little lamb with a baby bottle:
Honey, darling, dear, sweetheart, my love, sugar, cutie, sexy
boundaries with yourself can look like:
• Sticking to your non-negotiables.
• Having a bedtime.
• Not believing all thoughts as truth.
• Eating to nourish, not to numb.
• Not comparing your life to someone else’s timeline.
• Keeping promises to yourself.