The way I don't care anymy. That's why you post for us to see. I haven't seen your content in months I see a video best believe I'm going to your profile. Come bite me 😏
So I have henna on my foot and this little girl is telling her mama she wants a tattoo when she's older, the mother very loudly "no those things are permanent and then when you are a grandma you will be feeling shy and ashamed" 😂 I hope lil sis shocks her mum in uni 🤣
When you have mastered the art of contentment, people start thinking you have everything. Contentment does not cancel desire, it cancels desperation...
In short, just because I have a K40 mu airtel does not mean I will look like I have a K40 mu airtel 😂😂
Y'all said Chitalu Chilufya can make a great president because he read the COVID numbers well 😂😂 and uncle even wanted to stand as president this year 🤣 we are a joke
No manifesto, no plans for the country, no nothing of tangible value he can offer to the country😭💀 but yeah let’s make him president because he fell out with his buddy HH😭🤧 sometimes I think Zambia deserves whatever we go through because there’s no way😭💀
Dating a first born daughter means you have 0.2 seconds to help. After that she’s climbing the counter moving the ladder and nearly dying because you took forever to help.😭
There’s a mom at our school drop-off. Messy bun, always three minutes late, kids usually eating dry cereal out of a Ziploc. The "Pinterest moms" always whispered about her. I honestly felt a little bad for her.
Then one day at the playground, my neurodivergent son had a massive, violent sensory meltdown. I’m sitting in the dirt, crying, totally paralyzed.
The "perfect" moms just stared and pulled their kids away.
Suddenly, she’s there. The messy mom.
She drops her giant bag, sits right in the dirt next to us, pulls a heavy sensory toy out of her purse, and calmly shields my son from the crowd. No panic. No judgment. He regulated in three minutes. I was speechless.
We had coffee after. She told me her house is a disaster and she has severe ADHD, but she knows exactly what a nervous system collapse looks like.
I asked her how she deals with the judgmental stares from the other moms.
She took a sip of her cold coffee and said: "Perfect moms know how to bake organic muffins. Chaotic moms know how to survive the trenches."
Every time I see her running late now, I just smile. Girls, be like the messy mom. Stop apologizing for your chaos.
Ati tinkala kumayadi abo bashaya nkuni ba tekamo manzi mu shomeka yo shaba. People are very inconsiderate. My curtains will now smell of wood, bad wood.