“getting married and getting a house, why is that the status quo of being happy? some people have miserable experiences there and sometimes i feel like i’m so happy being a single girl” rosé is so real😭
this raw cry of "I exist" in The Brothers Karamazov was written while Dostoevsky was grieving the sudden death of his youngest son, knowing that agony makes this desperate insistence on holding onto life through sheer torment completely gut-wrenching
the reason why you get super tired after doing nothing but lounge around at the beach for hours is because your body begins an internal purification process the minute your feet hits the sand. salt is an absorber and neutralizer of energetic residues, so imagine what laying in what is essentially a massive salt bowl all day does to the harmful energies lingering in your auric field?
the sleep you get afterwards feels like a spiritual reset because it is. you literally dropped EVERYTHING you were carrying there and the ocean metabolized it as part of the earth again
every woman in her healthiest, most sensual state is like a cat. she takes her sweet time relaxing, gets enough sleep, enjoys her solitude, moves away from overstimulation, observant, moves with grace, intentional with who gets her affection, has strong boundaries, adores herself
Underrated life advice: Increase your recovery speed. You can't avoid failures. You will get rejected. Make bad decisions. Lose money. Embarrass yourself. Whatever. Just learn to reset faster. Shrink the window between fall and recovery. Master the art of the fresh start.
not even kidding when i say this exact thought crosses my mind every single day which is why i’ve made it my personal mission to enjoy my life to the absolute fullest
واحدة على إنستجرام وصفت بعبقرية الفرق بين تولستوي ودوستويفسكي: تولستوي اتولد غني، اتجوز غنية، وعاش حياته في عزبة هادئة، بيتفرج على تعاقب الفصول، فكتابته هادئة رزينة. دوستويفسكي، اتحكم عليه بالإعدام، واتعفى عنه في اللحظة الأخيرة، واتسجن في سيبيريا، فقد بنته، وأدمن القمار وعاش فقير
the best witchcraft i've learned is to say everything you're doing before you do it. even walking into a room. say "i'm walking into the kitchen and getting a drink," etc. after a couple of weeks, your mind has gotten used to doing what you say will happen. now your mind believes your words more and will more naturally work to make them happen.
I highly recommend having hobbies cause it distracts you from falling in love unnecessarily, and I have an explanation. An ideal mind always mistakes loneliness with love, but busy minds have standards, because when most of your days are filled with things like lifting, creating, reading, learning things like that, you stop chasing people for excitement, because we have a really bad habit of romanticizing every bit of attention that we get. Even if it was not not directed at us with the same intensity of intention, most of the time you are simply wanting something to do.Instead of the feel that you're confusing with wanting.And I strongly believe that best relationships are built when two complete lives meet instead of two bored people who try to become each other's hobby, the interdependence in that situation would create the pressure which finally would become the reason for the eventual breakdown.