Mau tau harsh truth lain? This kind of parenting will effect the child not only how they sees themselves but how they interact, have human connections, socialize and relationships. Cause they believe how every human connections and relationships is transactional or conditional.
Ga juga sih (scratch head) its bc we live in a society that prioritizes romantic connections makanya you start 'ignoring' your friends (non committal connections) the moment you have a partner. I have so much to say abt ppl who cant have a meaningful platonic relationship tp ya
SHINee is the group where you can be exceptionally good at something but another member is "one of the best in the whole industry/country".
Singing, dancing, visual, sports. You name it.