Mom, advocate for child sexual abuse survivors, physician, passionate about truth and justice. 'Think Globally - Act Microscopically'. GAGGED FOR LIFE!
In response to the two quoted sections below, please note that in my own New Jersey case, the domestic violence was noted as an open and shut case. My abuser was convicted, and I was granted a permanent restraining order.
However, even though the brutal sexual assaults, terroristic threats, and other convictions screamed for ongoing accountability, they were blatantly dismissed during the PA game that began years later.
The newly-installed Family Judges and the AFCC evaluator, fully aware of the grotesque record of violent crimes against me and my children, deliberately twisted the truth and orchestrated a plan that delivered my youngest child right into the clutches of that repulsive predator—the very monster who harmed her and her siblings and tried to kill their mother.
My point is, "believing" domestic violence victims does not prevent these charlatans with immunity from trafficking abused children to predators for profit.
Quote 1: STAR CHAMBER EXPOSED: NOTORIOUS NJ DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
“Family courts are notorious for discounting claims of domestic violence against women and children,” Lee wrote in her lawsuit. “Transparency plays a pivotal role in deterring judicial abuses.”
Quote 2: EXPOSING THE ‘BIGGEST CHILD TRAFFICKING BUSINESS’
In her censored post, Lee … accused family courts of running “the largest child trafficking business in the country,” supplying “pedophilic sex rings and child pornography production.”
I'll take the liberty to respond on behalf of Family Courts:
Dear Domestic Violence Victims,
Most of us Judges have the same level of concern for child safety as your Himalayan cat does for your 'No Paws on the Counter' rule.
The "Best Interest of the Child" factor is just a façade. Our priority is protecting abusers and paedophiles, not the children.
The Courts profit more from protecting an abusive parent's rights than caring about the safety of the children.
And as for you?
We certainly don't care about you.
In fact, we will punish you for being affected by domestic violence.
We will deny you Due Process, financially destroy you, deem you 'uncooperative' and 'unstable' and order you to 'get over the violence' while we take your children and place them into the hands of your abusers, even if they've raped your children and tried to murder you.
If you resist or beg us to not be so cruel?
We will further strip you of your rights, mock your pain, and psychologically torture you under the guise of 'justice'.
And should you fail to comply with our expectations of silence and submission, we just might traffic your cat too.
With all due apathy,
Family Court Judges
Early morning thoughts…
📜 Paying for the Privilege of Being Ignored
The Judge who took my little girl from me and from her older siblings, had personally acknowledged credibility concerns with our abuser and his lying lawyer.
Yet, this Judge still ordered her removal from Canada, forcing her against her will into the control of our American convicted-felon s*x offender.
It was ordered as a temporary experiment, based on a fraudulent ‘Alienation Evaluation’ that has yet to be cross examined.
This happened six years ago.
Six years of a child’s life is not temporary.
When the Judge was even directly faced with more than six hundred pages of proof of lies that validated her own credibility concerns, she refused to return my child and ultimately abandoned the case altogether, leaving us in dangerous limbo.
It cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars in legal fees for my lawyer to review and present that particular truckload of evidence, but I’ve learned the hard way that neither evidence nor the requirement of due process actually matter.
My experience exposes the horrific truth…
When the dangerous Alienation game is played in domestic violence cases, the system protects our abusers, punishes us and our children, and makes victims pay for the privilege of being ignored.
This is NOT okay.
Millions of people across the planet do not love their own children & will readily throw them under a bus to protect their own interests.
Dark personalities, including narcissists & psychopaths, have brain anomalies & are motivated very differently to the rest of the population.
They are dangerous to all people, including their own children.
However, it is likely you will never see this happening with higher functioning dark personalities such as those that are company directors, psychologists, doctors, lawyers…
They are extraordinarily skilled at masking their dark side, acting like a caring parent & manipulating others to believe their act while effectively discrediting anyone who may try and expose them.
Dark personalities often use their children to get attention or trap their children with them, including purposely making them sick or subtly facilitating a suicide attempt by their child.
Some see their children as an extension of themselves & will put enormous pressure on their child to perform.
Dark personalities also use their children to punish others. For example, manipulating their children’s memories and reality to purposely distance their children from the other parent.
The saddest & most profoundly abused children are those who try & expose the dark personality parent. They are punished in the most sadistic of ways & isolated from family members, friendships, & all relationships through extensive undermining, blatant lying & prolific discrediting, regardless of their age.
As a global community we need to get a lot better at accepting this phenomenon, screening children from a young age for this type of behaviour in a parent & protecting these profoundly abused children which number in the many, many millions.
My thoughts this morning…
📜The Global Family Court Child Custody Crisis Is Not About “Not Being Believed”—This Is About Deliberate Harm
Folks need to stop perpetuating the false idea that children and victims of domestic violence simply need to be “believed” by family courts, child protection workers, and custody evaluators.
This narrative creates a dangerous and misleading sense of security for victims, as well as the naïve public.
It implies that, “if only victims were believed”, or “if only they had enough evidence”, then the system would protect them and their children.
This is not the reality.
The global crisis, as now recognized by the United Nations, is not about “disbelief” —it’s about professionals in power knowingly enabling abuse and endangering children.
These individuals are not naïve or misinformed—they know exactly what they are doing.
This is not incompetence or oversight—this is deliberate, calculated harm.
For those of us with overwhelming evidence including criminal convictions, probation records, documented threats, and even s*x offender registries, we have watched these professionals lie under oath and spit on our evidence, pretending that none of it exists.
They do this to feign justification for taking our children away and handing them to our dangerous abusers.
They don’t care when children end up dead as a result.
This is not a crisis of disbelief; it is a crisis of impunity.
These professionals in power act without accountability, knowing they are protected by the very systems designed to hold them accountable.
This is not just corruption; this is terror.
For victims without evidence of their abuse that happened behind closed doors, this false belief narrative is even more dangerous.
It tells them that if only they had proof, or if only they were believed, they would be safe.
This is simply not true.
The truth is horrifying: the system doesn’t fail to protect victims because it doesn’t believe them…the system fails because it enables abusers with full knowledge of the harm it is causing.
So folks, please stop perpetuating the narrative that this is about not being believed.
My story proves that these professionals DO believe us.
I’ve watched them stare overwhelming evidence right in its face…
…but they act with impunity, knowing they are untouchable, as they make conscious choices to empower our abusers, destroy us, and endanger our children.
This is NOT okay.
But Family Courts are Dangerous Playgrounds where evil hides and then blindsides us.
My case is one example of many that proves when there is an agenda, such as the PA scheme, Judges will gaslight reality to deliberately endanger children and protect abusers & paedophiles.
Training them to “understand” is not the answer.
Please help the naïve public understand this intentional evil taking place in Family Courts instead of perpetuating the false sense of security that, “If only the Judges understood abuse and trauma, they’d protect our children.”
So much evidence exists that these monsters do not even care when they cause children to die.
Since 2008, there have been close to 1,000 children murdered in the US by a parent going through divorce, separation, child custody case or during visitation. 1,000 children not celebrating Christmas this year. 1,000 preventable deaths, if only law enforcement and family courts listened to mothers' warnings and allowed their evidence into court.
Leigh from Minnesota shares her story and the outcome of her 20-year advocacy journey.
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I was asked as a child:
“Are you being… did he… you know… did he… are you … did he… touch you?”
I felt their discomfort & embarrassment.
Most importantly, I knew they wanted me to say no.
So I said no.
I was 10. They never asked again.
We need to learn how to talk to children about child sexual abuse.
Yes it can feel really uncomfortable to do so, but it would feel so much worse to find out our child had been abused, and to wonder if that 'difficult' conversation might have made a difference.
#CSA
The letter I wrote to the Government of the #US regarding the lack of publication and incorporation of the #EqualRights Amendment (the ERA) into the United States Constitution as the 28th Amendment, which would significantly advance sex and gender equality for women in the US is now public: https://t.co/0oflF3WWQF
Shapiro blasts Biden’s commutation of sentence for former Pa. judge: ‘Some children took their lives because of this’ https://t.co/UyZPvmIMYu via @PittsburghPG
Certifying & publishing the Equal Rights Amendment is our best chance to protect reproductive care for all women ahead of the next administration.
Read my piece in @nytimes encouraging President Biden to make this a top priority: https://t.co/Q9Kxajk72F