@KnoxiteTheocrat Go where all the young women are
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-dating apps
More resources to help you:
The Complete Dating App Profile Guide: https://t.co/flW2PI0edg
(Shows you how to build a killer profile, including my own)
The Complete Texting Guide: https://t.co/zEk1MpSRN2
(Shows you how to turn your matches into dates and hookups)
How to pull girls from Double Date & Group Hangout mode on Tinder
First -
I personally have zero interest in actually DOING double dates or group hangouts
My objective is SEX, with minimal:
-time spent
-money spent
-effort spent
Group dates are a logistical nightmare for this
> So my basic strategy is to use DD/GH to match with hot girls, then split the group apart and just go out with one chick at a time
(You get one, your friend gets one)
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2 REASONS WHY DOUBLE DATE & GROUP HANGOUT ARE AWESOME:
1.
The best thing about these modes is that they give you ACCESS to hotter girls than you’d normally get
This is because the POOL OF USERS is much smaller
There are THOUSANDS of men in your city on Tinder…
Tons of competition
But VERY few men on Double Date
So you’ll get a pair of absolute rockets swiping on Double Date mode and there are only a handful of guys to swipe on…
So you’re WAY more likely to be seen and swiped right on with Double Date & Group Hangout
2.
The other good thing is that girls are more open and talkative when with their friends in the chat
They giggle and say dumb things and are overall just more fun
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HOW TO GET THE GIRLS IN PERSON
You can talk a bit on Tinder then grab their numbers for an iMessage groupchat if you want, set logistics from there etc.
This can work if your friend is cool and you actually want to double date
But I don’t like this. It’s annoying and messy
> Here’s what I like to do instead:
On Tinder you say something like:
“So who’s going with who?”
or
“So which one of you likes my friend best?”
Basically decide between all of you which girl is YOURS and which girl is your friend’s
Then you either:
a. Grab their numbers and then just text “your girl”
or
b. “Like” your girl separately on Tinder, match with her, then talk to her 1 on 1 and grab her number
Then just set up a date as normal
& that’s it 😁
SUPER EASY way to get extra hot girls in person
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It’s the same basic strategy as running in-person game with a wingman:
Use your wingman as a way to open a group of girls, chat and have fun, then ISOLATE the girl you actually like
You have to get her 1 on 1 to move the interaction forward
This is the beauty of Double Date & Group Hangouts:
You can open the interaction easily
From there it’s just business as usual
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PRO TIPS:
-make sure your male friend is COOL, similar in height/attractiveness/SMV to you, and understands the game
-don’t waffle around on Tinder forever wasting time. Girls love attention, especially in front of their friends. Get them OFF THE APP
-if you really want to do double dates, go for it - but the chance of a double date ending in SEX is much lower than a 1 on 1 date
-don’t do devil’s threesomes (or do, I don’t care…) 👺
-be cool. No weird peacocking or chest thumping with your friend
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Every new fancy “mode” a dating app releases is a GOOD THING
& you should maximize it
-astrology mode
-music mode
-hangout mode
Free opportunity
Whatever it is, find a way to CAPITALIZE on it and win
I’ve talked to so many guys frustrated with women from dating apps specifically because of their flake rates.
Common thing I hear is:
“It’s so frustrating investing into all these different conversations just for them to go nowhere. All to not even meet.”
Bro. You don’t have a relationship yet.
Why are you investing so much into all these different women who you don’t even know if they like you yet?
Women benefit way more from non-Sexual attention than you do.
And texting is the ultimate form of non-Sexual attention.
So until you bang (multiple times) and have her highly invested and pursuing you there’s no point putting in useless “effort”:
• Texting her recipes you’ll cook her
• Places you can travel
• Random shit when you don’t even know if she likes you
Then she flakes and you feel like an idiot left holding the bag.
Feeling all drained and hopeless.
I’ve been there before.
Thing is maybe she flaked because she can’t resonate with what looks like highly needy energy.
Solution is take it chill from the beginning.
You gotta Volume max but with lots of Volume that also means not burning yourself out.
The only way to do this at scale is copy-pasting similar messages and systemizing what you’re doing across multiple women.
Implementing any system and strategy with genuine intent and a goal is better than no system/strategy.
And if that’s not possible (meaning you can’t point to the strategy you’re implementing…) you’re probably too invested in one chick and that’s gonna turn her off.
Detach from all outcomes and only invest where you’re wanted.
And until you get confirmation you’re wanted (because she sleeps with you) cut out unearned non-Sexual attention.