The older we get, the more intentional friendships need to become.
Until you intentionally choose a person, your friendship is only bonded by circumstances.
Having a bad day or mood?
Just breathe in, breathe out. Call your favorite person to tell them exactly how you are feeling, allow them try to make you feel better.
Then get back to work.
You can’t keep sulking, it makes matters worse.
The beauty of life lies in the differences between our paths.
if everyone does things the same way and achieved the same result, boredom will become a very deadly disease. 🦠
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It’s so sad how easy it is to get drawn into other people’s journey, simply because we have compared so much.
Comparison is truly the thief of JOY!
If it begins to question our own path, then we need to draw the line right there!
I would always complain, not because they were bad. My complaints were always about the size.
And her excuse?
“Susan, don’t worry, you will grow into it”.
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Growing up, my mum would buy me oversized clothes at every opportunity she got.
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Almost every woman I know personally has been sexually assaulted at some point in their lives. You can't think it's okay to shut people up from speaking up about assault because some people lie. If you lie, you should face consequences - but that's not the conversation I'm having. Nor is it one I'm interested in having. How many of your male friends have they lied against? How many of your friends have actually assaulted women as vibes?? Women are terrified to go out. Women in their homes are not safe either. Ask your sisters. Ask your female friends and your girlfriends. Ask your wives. We're not all crazy. STOP RAPING WOMEN!!