Two siblings started arguing in cat language to see how their cat would react, and the cat that witnessed the argument suddenly got into character, unable to decide whether to join the fight or not 😂
Mother in law returned home today after staying with us for 1 month
Wife was feeling sad & I was cheering her up by reminding that we would be again meeting her in couple of months
Till it struck me, that I am never gonna meet my mom.
Anyway, I continued cheering her up coz
The money, the house, the SP, the car, the job, everything you desire, YOU CAN HAVE IT RIGHT NOW.
Remove those “oh i need to work hard for that job”, “oh i will buy that car next year after saving up”
NO.
You need to be in the state of ALREADY HAVING IT.
The moment you do, the 3D will bend itself to match your frequency.
That’s literally it, you will literally attract the money, the right person, the opportunity as soon as you shift your internal state.
Chamath Palihapitiya @chamath "Bro, there is no failure."
"That is what other people think of you to keep you down. There's no failure. If you were left on an island and it happened, you would just brush it off and move on. It's everybody else that you think is judging you. But then, here's the secret. They don't give a fuck about you. They are living their own lives. So it's your perception of what they think of you."
"There is no failure. There's do and learn. Do and learn. Do and learn. Do and learn."
@StanfordAILab
i don't think people understand how hard it is when your toxic trait is self isolation + avoidance, everybody instantly think you're ignoring them but you're just struggling to find peace
the itch to be perfect & chase perfection is an illusion that will most likely steal the excellence meant for u. just gotta do it the best way u can with what’s available. That's the only way to excellence. Things will never align perfectly, & if u wait for them to, u'll never get anywhere.
It’s insane because deep down you know what to do with your life but you trust the opinions of others (people who think this limited world is the absolute) more than your own knowingness (that comes from the field of infinite potential btw).
Why is isolation so harmful?
Impairment (lowered energy requirements→lowered or atrophied perception and physiological functions: ex. psychosis, Alzheimer’s and dementia)
Isolation itself (avoidance or withdrawal can lead to despair but you can increase your resilience through gradual exposure)
Lack of accountability (no one around you and no testing=no reason to improve since no stimulus)
Decadence/dissociation (trying to hold onto vain and self reinforcing delusions or fantasy rather than moving forward and embracing reality/suffering)
Avoidance or withdrawal is a misguided attempt at survival under stress which often creates negative reinforcement (avoiding gives you short term relief), especially in the modern world where you can get away with having few responsibilities and a life that is “good enough”
You need to spend time around people because it expose your flaws. When isolated, you can live in delusion without a true awareness of your problems.
Social interaction/involvement forces you to stop ruminating, it forces you out of yourself into action.
And unless you experience testing, you have no reason to change (e.g. isolation).
In this sense, isolation is a negative reinforcement of your current behaviors—many of which likely dysfunctional if isolation is chronic.
If you are not regularly sharing your experience (within reason) with people who care about you such as family, friends, a spiritual father, and looking for ways to cultivate relationships, you are likely limiting your spiritual development and health.
You can find shared experience without losing your uniqueness.
Follow your intuition.
Nothing extraordinary was ever made by someone doing only what was required. The unnecessary effort is the entire thing, and every human knows it the moment they see it.