Synclair Stephens

Writing my way out... Visit my blog "Nerves of Steel"... Patreon launched! Published @Romper

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

@ReignOfApril 1) Started a blog #nervesofsteel and was published about my DV situation @romper
2) Filed a couple DIR against spouse making my voice heard.
3) Served him with divorce papers
4) saw success in my field after I never gave up and kept applying...
#2017success

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

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[Amber Clement Updates Only @AuthorAmberC]

One day I'll talk about this more, but I had gotten a full rejection that implied a good chunk of my book flat out didn't work. I was with my friend and told her that this book was probably getting shelved.

Hours later I got the email that led to my offer.

Don't give up.

[Chani Nicholas @chaninicholas]

Working on not feeling guilty about not working.

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

Going to family center today to see what options I have for restraining order or requiring NARC to go to counseling or if moving possible... so many questions (and frustrations)

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

Things have gotten so so real this week... cops called and said someone had to leave after NARC threatened to kick my friend’s ass if she entered Monday night. She was coming to watch the kids so they wouldn’t have to go to court. They are not allowed, but...

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

My attorney said I might not have enough for a restraining (no bruises, not threaten to kill) - also with order he wouldn’t be required to pay expenses... but I can’t yet afford to live on my own with kids...so... feels a little like I’m stuck.

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

@Mickcollins32 Yes. A lot of healing work to be done this summer for all of us.

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

I got a breakdown of the treatment my kids have been receiving and that’s what it is... teaching calming techniques. I feel as if it is the only thing that got them through this year with the divorce started. They are on a journey, but therapy helped. They are 4 and 6. https://t.co/ESfmDUenQx

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

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[Lady J Monfort @LadyLadyj]

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[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

I had a therapist who charged me pennies years ago. Her advice then was “get out... he’s not going to change. What’s your exit plan?” In some respects I can’t believe I’m still exiting. But having the access to talk to her for the time we had was invaluable. https://t.co/H8kYa8Ahma

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

Dealing with this in my home and then hearing it on the news is absolutely too much to bear. To have both a verbally abusive and manipulative husband and government is the most depressive feeling. https://t.co/xxNhebbnCS

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

@LadyLadyj @4aTimeLikeNow @LeftWithNothin1 @TakeCourageMom @BerylGonePink @Light_Life_Love @vibrantSun44 @RevengeStalking @authorALNorton @laurellmeyers @journeywithptsd @FloridaMadeLady Even when I take time away I see the message. To know you are here is everything! To be able to offer support to others is everything.

[Lady J Monfort @LadyLadyj]

@4aTimeLikeNow @LeftWithNothin1 @TakeCourageMom @BerylGonePink @Light_Life_Love @vibrantSun44 @RevengeStalking @synclairwrites @authorALNorton @laurellmeyers @journeywithptsd @FloridaMadeLady Thanks! Together we have created a community where people share their experiences, find understanding, respect, humor & support. We are a tribe #SoulSisters❤️ 💞💃💃🏻💃🏿💃🏻💃💃🏼💃🏽💃🏾💃🏼 🙏🏾

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

@APD_Assassin @LadyLadyj @authorALNorton @LeftWithNothin1 @TakeCourageMom @BerylGonePink @Light_Life_Love @vibrantSun44 @RevengeStalking @4aTimeLikeNow @laurellmeyers @journeywithptsd @FloridaMadeLady Is there a neighbor you can confide in. I know this type of fear.

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

@LadyLadyj @APD_Assassin @authorALNorton @LeftWithNothin1 @TakeCourageMom @BerylGonePink @Light_Life_Love @vibrantSun44 @RevengeStalking @4aTimeLikeNow @laurellmeyers @journeywithptsd @FloridaMadeLady Also we know how challenging this is. Breathe breathe breathe meditate pray -

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

@TakeCourageMom Just makes me sick thinking of all the way he does this.

[Synclair Stephens @synclairwrites]

So frustrating! Tonight he told me that with the way I talk to him, the aggression I send his way, my teeth would be knocked out of my mouth if we were in another country. .... Real Subtle.... 😳... I can’t even begin.