i like ppl who can talk about sex, lust, nd their freaky side, then switch to human psychology, existentialism, and the absurdity of life in the same conversation
most men think like this, they’re made to follow orders. so much so, women find it so attractive when a man can intentionally and thoroughly plan things. its where that phrase “turn off my brain” comes from, but people online made it weird like women wanna be infantilized
Apparently BDSM can create the kind of mental state where time, self-consciousness and everything outside the immediate experience start to matter less. No wonder people describe subspace as dreamlike or trance-like.