obviously passing trans men w full beards going in the women's restroom as a 'gotcha' to bathroom laws is ridiculous. wow you really owned the right wingers by making women extremely uncomfortable
@poonerbird make more male friends, youll adapt to their habits and mindset real quick, and try worrying less and taking things less seriously. guys play off their issues and deal with them practically
i miss my peak ed, ik it's bad but i found restricting as simple as blinking. there was no option but eating as little as possible, i just did it. this binge restrict cycle is ass
@grahamstorvik@brinehav3n it's frustrating for trans people who experience this and have to fear for their safety and deal with the mental and social repurcussions of being outed to a group of people, to then have slightly quirky non-trans people making it a lighthearted joke
transsexual community needs to develop a single word shorthand that means like “i understand you are being well intentioned but please do not say that fucking shit to me ever again. also you are okay and you’re good. i promise you’re good. you’re good. it’s okay. you’re good.”
getting to live my last year of highschool as a regular guy who goes to parties, has sex, and has a big mixed friendgroup, genuinely saved my life. i thought id die a virgin at 25 max and be remembered only as a girl but maybe there's hope
@GoGo_Shibari@krispersalad i mean for many the options r transition or die, framing those who transition as inherently bad because they're choosing to be a man instead of living in constant self hatred or blowing their brains out is kinda shit