Women reject broke men and call it standards. Men reject single moms and get called immature. Women reject short men and call it preference. Men reject overweight women and get accused of body shaming. The issue isnโt standards. The issue is who is allowed to have them.
A man can be paying all his bills & taking care of his business but still get labeled โbrokeโ because he wonโt bankroll a grown woman. At this point โbrokeโ just means โwonโt fund me.โ