Just like to say for the people in the back
Stop sexualising skin to skin!
The doctors literally put the newborn on their dad for skin to skin! Grow
The fuck up … it’s a
Normal thing! He is talking about bonding time!
@JessFitfAIW I think that’s the thing people forget, they are their own person with their own values and sometimes we all don’t align
It’s ok to be a fan of someone but it’s not ok when you start harassing, name calling, hurting their families etc
Can I say something …..
People have become to comfortable in thinking they personally know someone they Stan? No you don’t. You know what they show you.
This my friends is a parasocial relationship.
Also don’t piss me off about the mental health stuff.
The people around you are the ones who help you through it! So yes that can be mothers, fathers, siblings, friends, family, your kids, partners etc
@AlisterKeys@v5eoq@pneuname@MrEnlightened6@_ayandamay I pursued justice actually if you must know and the guy got fired … but yes there was doubt to begin with … it took another male co-worker to help point out that it was actually creepy and I needed to go to management .. so yep it still didn’t stop me, it just caused doubt.
@AlisterKeys@v5eoq@pneuname@MrEnlightened6@_ayandamay How is it victim mentality? I don’t understand how saying my own insecurities can also be a reason we don’t want to speak out? We all have doubts in everything we do? I mean I even doubt myself on what I want to eat for breakfast 🤣
@AlisterKeys@v5eoq@pneuname@MrEnlightened6@_ayandamay It’s also not victim mentality? It’s self doubt, previous anxieties, society etc. shit has happened to me that I was scared to tell anyone about due to scrutiny, which was mostly in my head but still is true?
@AlisterKeys@v5eoq@pneuname@MrEnlightened6@_ayandamay Thing is you’re asking for proof from the person it didn’t happen to? Like I said I just drove my friend and the other three I just know about / know them. They could have fed me a lie, not saying they couldn’t have.