Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him)

Macro social worker, trans/NB health equity, mutual aid, trauma, cinnamon buns, embroidery.
🇺🇲 in 🇱🇺.
DEI Consultant & Coach @ Talking to Storms.

[Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him) @talkingtostorms]

@raymondmoay It works thanks!

[Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him) @talkingtostorms]

@raymondmoay Any hacks to get Life of Discipline to understand that I deleted a habit and therefore can create a new one? I had 3 habits, I deleted 1, now I have 2. The system won't let me create a third. (free version)

[Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him) @talkingtostorms]

@raymondmoay HOORAYYYY

[Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him) @talkingtostorms]

Everyone should read this article:
https://t.co/xKbO6bfZM0

#trans #transhealth #transresearch #macroSW

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

People pleasing is exhausting and leads to resentment.

It's also a coping mechanism we learned to stay safe.

Here's how to stop people pleasing, to become more authentic in your relationships.

A THREAD 🧵:

[WPATH @wpath]

World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) Releases the Standards of Care for the Health of Transgender and Gender Diverse People, Version 8.
https://t.co/xRQX1uIhKD

[Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him) @talkingtostorms]

Humans have survived as disabled and thrived within mutual aid communies for 31,000 years. #mutualaid #DisabilityTwitter https://t.co/zQNClBoTXW

[Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him) @talkingtostorms]

@DinetKoopman @AquariusInRed But yeah the definition of "necessity" in relation to health is an incredibly difficult concept.

[Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him) @talkingtostorms]

@DinetKoopman @AquariusInRed I still think there are important differences such as a fundamental collectieve understanding that health is part of a functioning society. America doesn't really have that belief. And despite arguing about the nuances, Dutch society as a whole appears to at least understand it.

[Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him) @talkingtostorms]

So what's the masculine version of a "Karen"? Do we have that yet? Ken maybe? Or do we just call them Karen still to disrupt their delicate sensibilities of cisnormativity? I need to know..#karens

[🍂Lyra|لَيرَى ☭ 🍁 (aquariusinred.bsky.social) @AquariusInRed]

Wat er niet gedaan wordt, is duiding geven wat er moet gebeuren, wat er nodig is en dat deze dingen gevolgen zijn van beleid.
Het is die uiterst passieve, contextloze duiding, die zo tekenend is voor NLse journalistiek, die het zo schrijnend slecht maakt

[🍂Lyra|لَيرَى ☭ 🍁 (aquariusinred.bsky.social) @AquariusInRed]

Ik denk niet dat mensen beseffen hoe dystopisch het Zorgakkoord werkelijk is, en het gebrek aan ophef is enorm verkillend

[Connor Simonoff Oenomel (he/him) @talkingtostorms]

Cultural competency is like looking at an ambiguous image. You need to rewire your brain to see both images. Unlearning unconscious bias operates the same way. Take your time, but never stop learning.
#SocialWorkTwitter #unconsciousbias #culturalhumility #culturalcompetency #CEU

[Sam Dylan Finch @samdylanfinch]

I told my old therapist that I had a hard time telling him things that would disappoint him, because I cared a lot about what he thought of me.

He asked what I needed to start to release that fear of judgment.