People are upset about this but this explains why many people have a distant relationship with โdadโs sideโ of the family. You actually need a parent who is invested in facilitating those bonds for them to happen.
I remember in the NICU, it was 2013, a doctor telling me with a straight face that black female babies were the strongest, followed by black male babies, white female babies and the weakest being white male babies, hence they gave more attention to them.
Just so everyone is clear what happened here;
Waitrose, a company that makes many millions in profits, was happy to let this young man work in their stores for several years without being paid.
The moment that he asks to be paid for his time, they refuse to let him come back.
This wasn't a "placement", or about helping him to get some "work experience", this was a large company taking advantage of a young man to use him as free labour, and the moment he wasn't free anymore, they dumped him.
This isn't inclusivity, this is blatant exploitation.