quit porn
and replace your worn out boxers
get a haircut every 2 weeks
shower twice daily
own a few quality polos and button down shirts
have at least 5 pairs of footwear for different occasions
own at least 2 good perfumes, if you can afford it, invest in 1 quality designer fragrance
use a roll-on deodorant (not antiperspirant)
drink a glass of water first thing in the morning and do a few push-ups
brush your teeth twice a day and clean your tongue before retiring for the day
use the restroom before leaving the house
dress well no matter where you’re going
above all, love God
save, bookmark and share with your brothers
buena suerte as you walk with me. 🫱🏼🫲🏾
pay solid attention;
an average millionaire is 40 not 23
an average billionaire is 55 not 35
the average age to buy a house is 35 not 25
most men hit their peak confidence at 32 not in their 20s
it takes the average person 66 days to build a habit not 7
the average ceo is 57 not 30
most people meet their life partner after 27 not 18
the average successful business takes 5-7 years not 6 months
most people don’t know what they want until they’re 30 not at graduation
stop letting social media brainwash you. you are not behind, you’re on your own track. live it ❤️
It is not your fault if you were born into a poor family. You had no say in your parents' marital decisions and finances. However, it is your fault and a shame if you are going into a relationship with your mate or senior brother's mate and putting your father's responsibility on them.
Regardless of your father's finacial reality, you are his responsibility. The pressure you're mounting on your mates, mount it on your old man. You cannot be understanding of your father's struggle or financial limitations, and be brokeshaming your age mates or killing them with pressure to foot your bills. If it is easy, why are you not footing your own bills yourself? Do you actually sit down to think these things through?
You say if he loves you, he would do it. Does your father not love you? Why is he not doing it? You call your dad the best dad but absolve him of irresponsibility. But your peer that you chose to date, which presupposes intention to love and cherish, you're judging him by his ability or inability to foot your bill. How shameless!
You say you don't want to sell your body for sex. But you're entering relationship to do just that. The whole point of a relationship is to love and to cherish, not to put your father's responsibility on your partner. If you want to sell sex, please do it. I'm too liberal to judge. Everyone is trying to survive. But don't enter relationship with the goal of wrecking your mate by mounting pressure you and your parents cannot carry, on him. Talmbout "if he wants to, he will." Don't you want to do it for yourself? Why have you not done it?
if you spend all day at a fish market, you’ll leave smelling like fish, even if you never touched one
but spend your day in a perfume shop and you’ll carry the scent even if you didn’t buy anything, that’s how environment works. it rubs off, whether you realize it or not. stay around complainers and everything starts to look negative. stay around excuse makers and growth feels optional but get around people who move with purpose, you’ll feel it.
get around people who live in gratitude, you’ll start to see differently. the scent of your environment will always follow you.
Yaaani sai kuna mtu tu anazunguka kwa kiti huko kwa ofisi za gava, anaenda lunch 3hrs, hiyo saa amekalisha mwanaraia hapo for 4hrs akiscroll tu simu bila kumhudumia alafu end month wanikate tax mimi mwenye nazunguka kwa jua alipwe? Very naisss😭💔😂
Be a man, your father is proud of.
Be a man, your wife would respect.
Be a man, your brother would admire.
Be a man, your son would look up to.
Be a man, your sister feels safe around.
Be a man, your daughter sees as a hero.
I’m in love with this sentence:
“The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth he can accept about himself without running away.”