remember:
healing is not immediate.
healing is not linear.
healing is HARD.
give yourself grace, even if your process is taking longer than you expect.
Red Flags 🚩 🚩
Lying is abuse.
Cheating is abuse.
Intimidation is abuse.
Manipulation is abuse.
Silent treatment is abuse.
Physical abandonment is abuse.
Emotional abandonment is abuse.
Cheating isn't part of ups and down of marriage.
Being made to feel low, worthless, insignificant, stupid for loving someone genuinely is an abuse.
People who do this and treat you this way are not God's gift to you. They are the devil's counterfeit sent to keep you from receiving God's promise for your life and keep you from truly walking in God's will and purpose for your destiny.
Each time you give yourself to an abuser and allow them to keep manipulating you, you are giving pieces of you bit by bit that you may never get back. You are giving up so much and gaining so little by holding onto an abuser, You deserve better.
ADVICE FOR WOMEN IN THE DATING WORLD:
You will never convince a man to love you.
Find a man who answers when you call and texts back in ample time rather than days.
Find a man that gives you clear cut answers and doesn’t leave you wondering where you stand.
Brief read...
the longer you hold things in, the more you end up resenting a person. animosity builds when you aren’t speaking your truth or when you feel unable to.
We are devastated to learn of Matthew Perry’s passing. He was a true gift to us all. Our heart goes out to his family, loved ones, and all of his fans.