Kata Saidina Umar ibn al-Khattab, “Hatiku sentiasa tenang kerana mengetahui apa yang melepasiku tidak akan pernah menjadi takdirku. Dan apa yang pernah menjadi takdirku tidak pernah melepasiku.”
everybody talks about cutting people off but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision knowing it’s not what you wanted but what was necessary for your well-being
Date a man who can communicate, listen without getting defensive, apologize sincerely, and correct his behavior. If he can’t do the basics, he’s not ready for a healthy relationship.
I prefer dating someone who's healthy and clingy. Constant talking, planning future dates/trips, and asking "When can I see you?" Yeah, I like that very much.
Update your partner always. It's not a rule, It's a love language Your partner shouldn't guess where you are. They shouldn't wonder what you're doing. Updating them is not control. It's love. It says, "You matter. I want you to know."
if a girl acts like a child
- she's dating a man.
if she acts like a mom
- she's dating a boy.
and if she acts like a man... she's dating a broke one.
tell me i'm wrong
"i didn't mean to hurt you"
okay. what did you mean to do?
because you meant to pursue me. you meant to get close. you meant to create intimacy. then you meant to disappear.
at what point did intention get lost? or did you just not think about mine at all?